Ulaa, so do that, contest on the grounds of his adultery, it is imperative that this be in the divorce records. You have to become a tigeress willing to do almost anything to win, win, win or at least get what is coming to you and ask your lawyer about suing this other woman (trash) for "alienation of affections." My friend did it and got $50,000. settlement. Hey money's money, go for it. You have to take care of #1 and thats you, then, now and always....

[ January 14, 2006, 07:09 PM: Message edited by: chatty lady ]