My goodness YES, YES YES many sex addicts don't want to have sex with their wife especially if they prefer young boys like your husband seems to. I have spoken to many of these perverts and they married because they were expected to and because they fooled themselves into thinking sex with the wife would calm their true desires and for awhile that works but unfortunately for the poor unsuspecting woman they married, it never lasts. They might truly try to be 'normal' but eventully give in. This man is SICK and you need to distasnce yourself from him as soon as possible. Make him come to court and even if he doesn't show up, YOU be there and you'll win by default whatever you want. keep after that lawyer of yours with your demands so he can't say "well you never told me." Don't take anything for granted and be firm...good luck!