I'm in the middle of making my daughter get on her feet and take care of herself too. It's draining in all ways.

The fact that she wanted you to watch her child while she worked out caught my attention. With a full load already on your shoulders, it sounds like she's using you.

I know how emotional this is but I also know it's important to get our priorities straight and if your daughter is really going to pull through this time, it might be a good idea to watch from a distance instead of being right in the middle of it. My daughter seems to do better when I back away.

Sorry you're going through this and you are wonderful!