Dotsie,
I have been there and back with that . My mother has Alzheimers and is 94 yrs old and in a nursing home in DE . I just found out today that she is failing and sleeps a lot . So , we are all going to Delaware Jan 2nd to say to her what needs to be said whether she can hear me or not . I know I am running into trouble with the nursing home for they will not let me know when she dies , but I will take care of them later. There are Hippa laws that the chldren have rights.

Keep us in your prayers and peace for my mother.