Wow, JJ, what a dilemma. My parents moved when I was a senior in high school, and left me with my grandmother. My parents did ASK if I wanted to go with them, but said I would have to get my own apartment immediately upon graduation. I finished high school, lived and worked with/for my grandmother, then went to my parents, promptly got an apartment of my own, and I sank, sank, sank deep into the depths of depression, then into the marriage of domestic violence. So, dear sweet parents, I applaud and respect you for acknowledging your childrens' needs, no matter how old they are, and waiting until the timing is better for the kids, too. On the other hand....how much should a parent sacrifice for their children? Is there a way to have both: move AND meet the needs of the children? Love and Light, Lynn