All of the above advice is excellent. Why is it when we are "in love" and I use this term loosley, we can't see the bad in our partner that anyone else can see??? It is a curse and seems to be indicative of women honestly seeing men. I am a firm believer in the old saying:
A person is treated the way they allow themselves to be treated!!!
Wake up, smell the flowers and move on...Its this slugs loss, not yours. [Roll Eyes]