Searcher...as always...your wise words have touched my soul...

Flipper...your post has so much clarity and insight...my oldest daughter has been living North of Seattle for the past 2 years but will be moving back East in the fall...although my husband and I have been out to see she and her husband several times none of her siblings have made the trip...she hasn't said anything...but I am sure she feels hurt that none of them have made an effort to get out there...now after reading your words I am sure she feels hurt....would you mind if I copied your post and sent it to my son and other 2 daughters to read?