Dotsie,
I bet your husband's got his work cut out for him if he wants to be kinder than you. It's a wonderful thing that you have that type of competition.
I have friends who are getting divorced and seems like they are competing *not* to be kind, *not* to give, *not* to need the other, and *not* to want to stay married. A very bad thing.
You've spoken of how you and your husband communicate. I've noticed that talking is not the only my husband and I communicate. We talk, work and play together. We communicate physically, emotionally, intellectually, and socially. Sometimes we just sit silently together, and sometimes we communicate by praying and worshipping together.
Of course we're still sort of newlyweds so maybe we'll settle down to one way sooner or later.
It's nice to hear about a happy couple.
smile

[ May 22, 2004, 07:56 PM: Message edited by: smilinize ]