Oh yes, and parents love to say, "you're just like me." Sometimes I cringe when I hear that because I am my own person. No one makes my decisions or speaks for me. I am strong and not a branch to be bent to the will of others. I want people to respect me even if they may not like me. I donot want their stupid "labels" and their put downs. Truthfully, I just ignore their dumb comments and to my friends here...you all should too. Demand that respect from others.