Dianne -

I agree with these smart ladies -- write the letter for YOU -- ignore the email.

Throwing a prayer in your face is abusive and an attempt to "guilt you" back into her life -- she has stepped over the boundaries -- people like that wont understand an explaination anyway -- they'll just twist it around to fit their needs

If she emails again - post it and we'll offer suggestions on where to go from there -- but for now -- I'm sure you have better things to do ;-)