Di..when I was faced with having to "let" my Dad go with dignity..I was referred to the "Hospice" office in the hospital where he was being treated..the Hospice people were so unbelievably wonderful firstly with him but also with me...they were so loving and respectful and kind...and after he died they followed up with me for months...they know exactly what to do...who to talk with and they are rock solid in their support of the loved ones...have your friend contact them today!!! my prayers go out to him ...how kind you are for trying to help