Eagle,
I admire your courage for telling us your story about your husband family . I feel for you. Only one suggestion , maybe if you include your stories of your family by saying I have been their with the same thing and feel for you . Or maybe you have done that with no avail. I to am a second wife and hubby has a large family . I have a brother ,but well that is another story , but will PM on that subject and mother and daddy are gone and relatives are toxic so it can be a lonely life for me , but I have made a lot of friends and you can count me in as a friend . PM me anytime .

Hope this helps some . I don't understand hubbies family .

Renee
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Courage is very important
Like a muscle, it is strengthened by use .