Funny Caloona, I taught STEP parenting classes years ago and I am so glad I did. I have truly used those techniques of letting the kids talk, affirming what they say instead of reacting or denying their feelings, using "I" statements, etc.

I must say they work better on certain children than others.

I guess I am finished beating myself up on that issue of having to make sure he learned his lesson. By the grace of God, life goes on and time heals all wounds.