LilianOwl, I love your response. I never thought about the other bedroom thing not being strange and having one bedroom meaning you weren't "good enough." Even if you ddin't have a medical problem, it might be good just for taste things. I mean, most guys would proabbly prefer not to sleep among flowery blankets and lace pilllow cases, and most women probably don't want a mirror on the ceiling or giant tv screen on the wall. It'd be nice for that reason alone. I finally got a bed spread with flowers on it. NOthing too girly, but my bedroom is not unisex anymore.