I have concerns that my SO is addicted to porn on the Internet. After some investigating on my part, I have found out that he has a Playgirl on-line account. I realize that in itself is no big deal, but he lies about it. He won't admit that he prefers the pleasure of his own handiwork rather than sharing with me. He is full of rationalizations and excuses about not having intimacy, and this has been an ongoing issue between us for several years. I have been patient, naively listening to his screwed up philosophies.... But, now I am done with him. I am an attractive, intelligent woman, with men always interested in me. I moved out of the bedroom in April, and have told him we are merely room mates. Now, if I can get him to MOVE OUT of this house! It is complicated. The saga continues.....