Foundhervoice..
Of course you feel hurt...21 years is a long time to be with someone...I would be upset for you if you didn't feel this way...you have to mourn the death of your marriage...it's a real death...so mourn...and cry...take your time...but soon you will feel stronger and the days will feel sunnier and you will be excited for a new beginning...and there will be a new beinning and a better life for you ahead...I promise...in the mean time..here's a ((((BIG HUG)))) from someone who cares....