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#71280 - 01/03/06 12:30 AM
Re: Hanging On By A Thread!
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Registered: 07/08/05
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Loc: Ocala Florida
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Oh#5 Please run -Now!! The only things you need to pack are the clothes the little theif didn't take and your precious grand daughter You are not a slave- and for sure you are not an equal partner in this marriage- get a good lawyer He is that bad- sorry- you really are just making excuses for him- you don't need to be mentally abused and for certain he is no one to be around a child
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#71282 - 01/03/06 02:59 AM
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Registered: 10/02/05
Posts: 370
Loc: Washington State
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Wow......I missed this post. Here we go again.....I totally agree with Chatty and everyone else. Please......get out and away from both the abusive people in you life! Lynne
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#71283 - 01/03/06 02:27 PM
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Registered: 12/26/05
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Loc: Deland, Florida
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I'm so happy to have found this site. Thanks to all of you for your input. When I read what I wrote in a public forum like this, I realize that I sound like a total wimp for even trying to make this work. I think I've lost my self respect and have accepted a role as servant or underling. Last night I went with my daughter to work out in a town nearby. My husband threw a fit saying, "There is so much to do around here and you want to go and work out!" "Sure, leave me hurting and working, that's my workout." "You go on the the gym with your daughter though" I DID and enjoyed every minute of it, furthermore, after the gym my daughter, grandaughter and I went out to eat at a Japanese restaurant. I worried and fretted the whole time we were eating out only to discover when I talked to him on the phone that he had left his "chores" and gone to the bar shortly after we left. He was already about 3 sheets by the time I got home. I can't live like this anymore, in fear and anxiety and wondering from one day to the next if I'm even going to have a home or a husband or a job or be yelled at or doors slammed or things broken. Once he put me in a hammer lock and forced me to ride in a vehicle with a drunk driver. Other people saw and heard him. When we got home he chased me throuogh the house and tried to kick the bathroom door in. The hole is still there. He threw a metal beer bottle at me several times trying to hit me with it and broke his own eye glasses and several of our dinner glasses all over the floor and I had to clean it up. Maybe his daughter would be good for him or someone from Russia..... Anyway thank all of you so much and God bless you.
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#71284 - 01/03/06 06:52 PM
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Registered: 08/08/05
Posts: 816
Loc: Fredericksburg, Va.
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You deserve so much better....
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#71287 - 01/04/06 08:06 AM
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Registered: 06/30/05
Posts: 383
Loc: Illinois
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#5 Don't think about anything, just pack your bags as soon as he leaves for a couple of hours and leave. Go to the nearest police station and ask where the women's crisis shelter is. They will take you there. You will be safe there, it isn't listed so he won't know where you are. You and your grandchildren are in danger. You are in an abusive situation where he is setting you up to use you as his financial support after he retires. He is using the threat of throwing you out to control you. Beware of cycles where he is nice and you fall for him all over again--they will be quickly followed by periods of abuse. We will all support you, encourage you and pray for you. Be bold, take action, protect yourself and leave before something really bad happens to you or your grandchild.
My advice--don't wait for plan B. Get out and then make plans. If he comes home drunk and forces you to go on another joy ride--you might not ever get to plan B. Go now, go quickly.
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