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#70302 - 01/24/06 02:37 AM
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I agree with Chatty that it is a matter of luck and nothing else. I can guarantee you, though, that the Internet is NOT the right way!
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#70306 - 01/24/06 11:26 AM
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Registered: 01/10/06
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Loc: Honolulu, Hawaii
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I think that as long as you get out alot and do things that involve both genders, you'll meet someone eventually : )
Especially if you are outgoing, smile alot, etc.
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#70308 - 01/25/06 08:53 AM
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Loc: Pagosa Springs, Colorado
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#70309 - 01/25/06 02:54 AM
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#70311 - 01/28/06 09:29 PM
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Registered: 11/23/05
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quote: Originally posted by Dianne: When you stop caring whether you meet someone or not, there they are.
Nope. Just looked out at my driveway. Empty.
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#70312 - 01/28/06 09:33 PM
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Registered: 11/23/05
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Loc: Midwest
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quote: Originally posted by smilinize: I think the best place to meet "MEN" is Lowes and Home Depot.
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Heck, yes! Big selection of studs in the lumber department. Just be sure you get a "straight" one.
(That's not original to me; but I've been waiting years to use it. )
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#70314 - 01/29/06 03:51 AM
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#70317 - 02/25/06 07:45 AM
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Registered: 05/20/05
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Loc: Virginia, USA
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This is easy. Become involved. Don't sit back and let life pass you by. Concentrate on your own interests and lo and behold that man you would want to spend the rest of your life with would be right around the corner. That's the way the soul mate experience works, so I figure that's the same with any experience.
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#70321 - 04/09/06 05:19 AM
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Registered: 08/25/05
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Loc: Ohio
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You've heard me whine about the guy I reconnected with (at the grocery) a few weeks ago. Well, we finally met last week and he really does seem like a genuinely decent guy. I think we will see each other again, but this is going to be slow - but I'm okay with it. The last guy I dated started asking me to do things for him after a month that just were not appropriate, like participate in the basketball team he coached. That's something a wife does not a new girlfriend. He wanted to push, control and plan my life for me.
I've met guys in the park, walking my dog, the bike path, parties, a bar, church, Bible study group and a date auction and I learned that you should be careful no matter where you meet them. You should never give your heart to someone until you know them very well and have met some of their friends and family.
Has anyone ever done the 1 date per 5 minutes deal?
Daisygirl
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#70326 - 04/19/06 02:04 AM
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Registered: 10/02/05
Posts: 370
Loc: Washington State
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Now that I'm going to be single after 41 years of marriage, I don't think I will jump into the "dating arena" right away. Probably never!! Yuk!!!! Lynne
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#70328 - 04/19/06 05:22 AM
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Registered: 10/02/05
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Loc: Washington State
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Sex........what's that?? Not in my vocabulary for many years! Oh well.... Lynne
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#70330 - 04/20/06 02:22 AM
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#70333 - 04/21/06 03:09 AM
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#70345 - 04/24/06 06:23 AM
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Registered: 07/08/05
Posts: 80
Loc: Colorado
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There's a time and a place for everything, and right now I am concentrating on securing a future for myself. I'm sure that there are many good men out there (heck - I have two sons of my own and I like to think that they have been raised to be kind and sensitive renaissance men!), but like Chatty and Bonnierose, I am happy doing my own thing these days and am not counting on meeting or even looking for Mr. Right. I'm sure it has something to do with my divorce not being final yet, the trauma of a deceit-laden marriage still fresh in my heart and on my children's faces, and in finding out that I really was married to a clinical sociopath. Kinda tends to sour one on relationships, y'know? Besides, my plate is full just trying to figure out how to make ends meet and avoid becoming a statistic on women and poverty. foundhervoice-atlast P.S. I do not agree that there is only one Mr. Right that exists for each of us. IMHO, depending on the circumstances, I believe that there can be more than one appropriate match for each person...but that does not make him any easier to find...
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#70346 - 04/24/06 10:27 PM
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foundhervoiceatlast,
I agree w/ you regarding "concentratong on securing a future for mysef." By doing your own thing and moving forward positively, your actions and beliefs will attract positive individuals. I also agree that there is more than one appropriate match -- you're definately on the right track!
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#70357 - 05/06/06 07:50 AM
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#70361 - 05/07/06 05:57 AM
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Registered: 08/25/05
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Loc: Ohio
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I think I met a truly nice one, but he sure is slow, and we aren't getting any younger. I've been sitting by the phone for a month. I am staying busy and going on with my life, but this is torture! We are both petrified of getting into a bad relationship. I'm willing to take a risk, but I'm not sure if he is - I bet he isn't sure if he is either.
Daisygirl
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#70363 - 05/12/06 01:34 AM
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Anne327, what is string theory?
Daisygirl, I agree, don't wait by the phone for him, why pine for someone who does not return the courtesy. When some men use this disappearing act trick, they know how to manipulate and may even be stringing along other women, too. They have you waiting on the seat cushion just waiting for their call, and when he does finally call, we fall for their tactics. I did this w/ my ex-husband and another relationship after my divorce, not again.
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#70365 - 05/12/06 05:28 PM
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Registered: 08/25/05
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Loc: Ohio
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Oh, he called me during the month, but only about 1 or 2 times a week. It didn't interfere with my life or activities, only my mental state. I realized that last week I informed of all my activities last weekend and that's why he didn't ask me out for last weekend.........hence..........
UPDATE: Last weekend I decided I would invite him to a "alternative music" service at my church. I was giving him mixed signals as he was me and I decided to let him know I was definitely interested. I would then know if he was or not and move on if I needed to. Anyhoo, we went to dinner afterwards and had a great time, he's called me every day since and tonight we're going on our first "real date".
Actually, even though the waiting drove me crazy, it was nice to get to know him slowly without so much pressure. I feel like we're friends and it's not all about sex.
Daisygirl
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#70367 - 05/12/06 11:26 PM
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Registered: 08/25/05
Posts: 1052
Loc: Ohio
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Yes, I am excited but not anxious. It's all in God's hands, really.
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#70370 - 05/15/06 04:53 AM
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Registered: 08/25/05
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Update: My date was very nice on Friday - very nice indeed. We went to dinner to a Japanese restaurant, but it was aweful! He really felt bad, but it was so bland, I couldn't hide the fact that I didn't like it, especially after I said, gee this tastes like crap. We then went to see RV, which is a great family movie, then home. He seems like a genuinely nice guy and I don't see any sociopathic tendencies or personality defects so far, but believe me, I'm looking for signs.
Daisygirl
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#70371 - 05/16/06 12:35 AM
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Daisygirl, I'm delighted that your date went so very well!
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#70373 - 05/18/06 08:00 PM
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Registered: 08/25/05
Posts: 1052
Loc: Ohio
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Thanks Anne. We'll see how it goes. We now talk nearly every day although I've been out of town and not available very much this week. I don't believe in horoscopes and such, but I got a fortune cookie that said "Take that chance you've been considering." Hmmm.....I guess I will.....
Daisygirl
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#70375 - 05/20/06 01:04 AM
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Registered: 08/25/05
Posts: 1052
Loc: Ohio
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Okay, here're some "germs" to get you started - okay, how about a prayer?
I prayed for you to meet someone honest, real and good - the perfect guy for you! You may have additional requirements, but God already knows them..........
Daisygirl
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#70377 - 06/09/06 08:48 AM
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Registered: 06/08/06
Posts: 111
Loc: Brisbane Australia
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quote: Originally posted by MossPatch: quote: Originally posted by Dianne: When you stop caring whether you meet someone or not, there they are.
Nope. Just looked out at my driveway. Empty.
Just trying this for the first time - I love your quip!! You guys are thoroughly entertaining and sassy and wise - thankyou everyone for helping me feel less lonely and much better.
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#70379 - 06/09/06 10:25 PM
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DebShines, enjoy your ice cream while it's on the plate, in other words be present within yourself and don't look to a man for happiness!
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#70380 - 06/10/06 12:19 PM
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Registered: 06/08/06
Posts: 111
Loc: Brisbane Australia
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Hey MustangGal - thankyou, that is exactly why I am here, to regain myself in the company of new friends. Life is great and yes I am going to get to know me again.
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#70382 - 06/18/06 05:54 AM
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Registered: 06/08/06
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Very cool at the moment - only about 20 celcius in the daytime, and down to 5 celcius at nite. But we are so used to wearing shorts and t shirts that we forget to put on extra clothes and simply turn on the heating!! but being cold makes a nice change from summers heat and humidity!! I will try to improve my fledgling website so I can share my life in Australia with everyone.
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#70384 - 06/19/06 05:13 AM
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Registered: 08/25/05
Posts: 1052
Loc: Ohio
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I take Daisy to the park nearly every day I can. You do have an opportunity to talk to many types of people. I have never dated anyone I've talked to there. But then again, I may have "I'm a freak" tattooed on my forehead.
Daisygirl
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#70387 - 06/23/06 03:21 AM
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Registered: 08/25/05
Posts: 1052
Loc: Ohio
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Anne, you crack me up! What a great way to keep it all under control.
I did meet a guy this past Monday at a restaurant where I am a regular, gave him my #, but haven't heard from him yet. It must be that FREAK sign.
Daisygirl [ June 22, 2006, 08:22 PM: Message edited by: Daisygirl ]
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#70389 - 06/23/06 10:17 PM
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Registered: 08/25/05
Posts: 1052
Loc: Ohio
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It's a good thing that the guy didn't call because I have a date with my h.s. friend and he is the one I really want to spend time with.
Things are working out better because I gave up trying to control things. I am trusting God and He is working everything out. I should've said TRYING to trust God! It's a struggle to give it up.
Daisygirl [ June 23, 2006, 03:24 PM: Message edited by: Daisygirl ]
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#70391 - 06/25/06 09:46 PM
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Registered: 06/06/06
Posts: 322
Loc: Durham, NC
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I met my NEW HUSBAND on the internet. We dated five years and just got married June 3. It's the second marriage for both of us. I know, without a doubt, that God put us together! I am so happy and so in love! The last time around I was so in LUST. There is a MAJOR difference. By the way, Daisygirl...what part of Ohio are you from? I was born and raised in Canton. Went to Ohio University. Peace & Blessings, Beverly Mahone Author, WHATEVER! A Baby Boomer's Journey Into Middle Age www.talk2bev.com
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#70392 - 06/26/06 12:27 AM
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Registered: 08/25/05
Posts: 1052
Loc: Ohio
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I'm in a suburb of Dayton.
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