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#52285 - 11/16/05 08:39 AM
Gift ideas for a "private" baby shower sought
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DH and I will be giving his pg daughter and her dh and private baby shower. Why, you ask? Emotionally, I cannot attend a baby shower. I was not able to have my own and being around all the women who ONLY talk about labor, delivery, how beautiful the baby is etc is too hard for me. So, DSD likes the idea of a private shower so.........I'd love some ideas!
this is DH's first grandchild and my first step. Thsu far I have a onesie, a little statue and that's it. what else shall we get (not too expensive) both for her and baby? I'd love some neat ideas for his son-in-law-father-to-be as well. He's 39, and my DSD will be 33.
What are you thoughts from the "grandparent" perspective?
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#52286 - 11/18/05 04:13 AM
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I'm not a grandma yet, but you can get a very nice stroller for a reasonable price. It's a useful item that is one of the first things a new mother asks for. Also, newborns go through a lot of diapers so you could go to your grocery store and buy a few packages of Huggies. These are a pretty good brand. Newborns need sleepers too. The ones with feet in them are nice. Maybe some of the other ladies have gift ideas for the father to be. I've never gone to a shower where the father also got a gift but it doesn't mean you can't give him something too. That's very thoughtful of you!
Ladies, any gift ideas for the new father-to-be?
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#52289 - 11/18/05 05:49 AM
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Eagleheart, I never had a wedding shower either. I was 24 and my husband was 31 when we got married. Although it was a first marriage for both of us he was well-established and we felt there wasn't anything we needed. The book is a perfect gift idea. How about the Velveteen Rabbit or Love You Forever (a tear jerker of a book.) I read to both of my children from the time they were born up until their 12th or 13th year. Hubby read to them too. We took turns.
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#52291 - 11/18/05 07:31 AM
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My son and his wife are expecting their first child in March. As part of his birthday present last month, I gave my son a book titled "Why I Need You: 100 Reasons" by Gregory Lang. It is a lovely book, very simply written with beautiful pictures. It has simple "advice" such as, "I need you to make sure my bath water isn't too hot," and "I need you to remember that I can't help having little accidents now and then." Each bit of advice is on its own page, with an accompanying picture. Before I purchased it, I sat in Barnes & Noble reading it and getting all teary-eyed from words and pictures. Truly a must-have book, IMHO. Amazon has it at: http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1581824408/103-5553112-1619040?v=glance&n=283155&s=books&v=glance
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#52292 - 11/18/05 09:06 AM
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Oh,the books sound wonderful! I think I'll order a few. Yeah,the Dad usually gets the bills! LOL!!
they got used stroller already. He is making thie crib (he's quite a furniture maker!). I've never read the Velveteen Rabbit nor the other ones for that matter.
Keep those ideas coming!! I love 'em all!!
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#52293 - 11/18/05 10:26 AM
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Ok, I just ordered all three of these books! I'm taking ya'll's word for it. I have no idea what to get, so I'm finished!
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#52294 - 11/18/05 07:02 PM
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Now, what about idea for "favors". there will just be the four of us.
Get my thinking cap on!! any ideas?
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#52295 - 11/18/05 07:57 PM
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For "favors" check out any Babies R Us store or Card Party outlets. When there just ask the clerks for ideas. You'll love the book, Love You Forever. My kids had it read to them in pre-school and when I heard about it I had to have it. We've still got it. Dr. Seuss books are my favorites too, all of them! Good luck, you're on your way. You will be really appreciated Grandma!
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#52296 - 11/27/05 09:37 PM
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Any other book ideas anyone? I really don't like "magic" type reads, but more moral and traditional kind of stuff.
thanks for all ideas! [ November 27, 2005, 01:37 PM: Message edited by: Di ]
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#52299 - 11/28/05 11:26 PM
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Thanks Dotsie and Chick for your gift offers. Smile recently threw me/us an awesom cyber-shower at http://www.boomerwomenspeak.com/cgi-bin/ultimatebb.cgi?ubb=get_topic;f=33;t=000059;p=1 which was wonderfully thoughtful and really lifted my spirit. As for gifts for Cuba, many thanks, but our cup...er, suitcases are already overflowing for our next trip (we leave Feb 16th for 4 weeks). We can't take any more stuff for this trip...we don't have enough room for everything we've already collected thus far...2 fishing rods, several dictionaries, 3 Spanish Bibles (a gift from my aunt), a portable CD player, snorkeling gear, lots of watches, and a huge assortment of clothes, toys, toiletries and jewellery. We have a lot of fun hunting for deals all year round, but not so much fun trying to fit it all into our alloted weight restrictions! But we're flying with a different airline this year, and they have a more generous weight limit, so we might get most of it there. We finally realized that if we buy 4 large soft-sided hockey bags (with no wheels), we can fit a lot more stuff in and still stay within the weight limits. (And they're so cheap that we can probably leave one bag behind for someone there to use and buy a new one next year.) The big suitcases with wheels are already very close to being too heavy for the charter airlines, even before you fill them! [ November 28, 2005, 03:27 PM: Message edited by: Eagle Heart ]
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#52308 - 12/01/05 04:43 AM
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Well, consider it a practice session for the real thing. Maybe we should have a practice "Bon Voyage" party. And a practice "Welcome Home" party while we're at it. Then we'll be all set for the real thing in February. I'm just kidding...I'm still enjoying the ripple effects of the cybershower!
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#52310 - 12/07/05 07:06 PM
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The "shower" went really well. Come to find out that ours was the only official one they will have! Her work gave her a lunchtime one, but that is it. Too many people live too far from them.
I wrapped several books and gave them one at a time. Then a few other gifts, then the basketful of stuff like a pacifyer with a medicine dispenser attached, a nail clipper with a magnifying glass, some castille soap, baby wash (a cotton bag I made with lavender buds and oatmeal), a "first bath" stuffed frog/rattle, a couple more reading books for baby, some emu balm for diaper rash, some bumm balm, a onesie etc. Our doggies even gave them a gift: another onesie with doggies and dog bones all over it. Too cute!!
What fun!!!! I think they really appreciated it. We sure had a blast wathing them open everything!! [ December 07, 2005, 11:07 AM: Message edited by: Di ]
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#52312 - 12/08/05 01:58 AM
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Di, I'm so happy to hear the shower went well. How could your step daughter not love you for it?
Wish we could all be so fortunate to have someone think of us with thoughtful deeds as you do for her.
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#52315 - 12/08/05 09:46 PM
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That's true Chatty and isn't the step daughter the lucky one?
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#52317 - 12/09/05 04:53 AM
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#52318 - 12/09/05 05:42 AM
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quote: Originally posted by chatty lady: Actually Ladybug I think this shower has created a win - win situation...and thats a wonderful thing.
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#52319 - 12/09/05 10:56 PM
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Di, your heart's in the right place! I know you're well on your way to becoming a treasured step-mom. I know I'd love you if you were mine. [ December 10, 2005, 10:48 AM: Message edited by: ladybug ]
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#52320 - 12/10/05 07:35 PM
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Interestingly, a couple of family members have sent gifts, in addition to a friend. I'd sent out email announcements of this "private shower" because I was so excited! Not really thinking they would attend, but at least I offered. I accept DSD as my own and I do those things I would if she were my own. I told her it was the only real chance I'd ever get. And funny enough, no one in her family is giving her a shower!
I'm so happy because they are acknowledging this as if she were my own daughter. Warms the hearts of both DH and I.
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#52321 - 12/11/05 07:23 PM
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Di, I'm sure she feels the love you've put into all of this.
It would make me feel very special in this situation to know I was the one who gave her a shower as if she were truly my own daughter.
My blessings to you and the entire family. Encircle each other with love and caring, all else will fall into place. You really are someone special Di!
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