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#25546 - 03/23/05 12:43 AM
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Registered: 01/24/05
Posts: 1550
Loc: Colorado
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Welcome Eagle Heart,
Good for you for "stepping out" and finding a place to belong!
This is the most amazing group of women you will ever find! Welcoming, non judgemental, funny, full of life!
You will fit in here perfectly!
hugs and prayers your way!
Danita
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#25548 - 03/23/05 01:23 AM
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Registered: 12/21/04
Posts: 483
Loc: North Carolina
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Glad you've joined us Eagle Heart. You'll make a lot of friends here.
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#25559 - 03/23/05 10:40 PM
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Registered: 08/27/03
Posts: 791
Loc: Nipigon, Ontario Canada
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Welcome Eagle (yay! another Canadian on the site - we are growing in numbers ) I'm sort of at the opposite end of the province to you, though I checked out your website, it looks lovely - and I ditto what's been said about the cover of your book, the artwork is beautiful!
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#25560 - 03/23/05 11:03 PM
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Registered: 12/14/04
Posts: 40
Loc: Cape Cod Massachusetts
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Welcome, I am new here as well and eagerly drop by daily to read and be encouraged and inspired. I am a manic-depressive so I understand the depths of despair and isolation having visited there a few too many times myself. Learning that hope is ever alive was my hardest lesson. Now I love life and all the fun of living it. Be welcome and stay connected! Kat
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#25561 - 03/24/05 12:00 AM
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Registered: 03/12/04
Posts: 1177
Loc: Decatur, Illinois
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Dear Eagle Heart,
I suffer from depression and panic/anxiety attacks. This winter has been especially bad. If it weren't for this group, I'm not sure where I would be right now. This group is a wonderful, caring group of women who are really interested in your life and connect with it.
Where is the website they are talking about?
Sherri
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#25562 - 03/24/05 12:15 AM
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Registered: 03/22/05
Posts: 4876
Loc: Canada
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Hi Sherri, I think this winter has been bad for those of us prone to depression...it's been such a long, dreary, cold, snowy winter, full of disturbing stuff in the news just about every day. It's difficult to get one's spirits up when constantly confronted like that. I don't know about you, but the sight of the snow melting off my front lawn is somewhat hopeful that winter might finally be melting into Spring...although I think your corner of the world is getting more snow today, aren't you? Anyway, we do know by the fact that we just celebrated the Vernal Equinox that Spring is definitely on its way! I love this time of year, and try to use that whole theme of New Life to bolster my hopes and spirit. It's good for the reclusive soul to bask in that warm sunshine as much as possible...I always try to get enough so I can reserve some for next winter! That website is at www.eagleborntofly.com. I'm going to visit yours and others from these postings as soon as I can. In the meantime, it's sure good to be here!
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#25563 - 03/25/05 09:21 AM
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The Divine Ms M
Registered: 07/07/03
Posts: 4894
Loc: Orange County, California
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Hi Eagle Heart, Welcome to BWS! We are here for you. Very nice website.
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#25567 - 03/25/05 10:09 PM
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Registered: 03/05/05
Posts: 134
Loc: Texas
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Welcome Eagle Heart! This is the place to find solace, friendship, understanding and humor. I recently joined too, and found these gals to be amazing. They are warm, friendly and non-judgmental--they are friends! Alanna
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#25569 - 03/25/05 11:31 PM
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Registered: 03/12/04
Posts: 1177
Loc: Decatur, Illinois
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I tan all winter long, it helps tremendously. I would recommend it to anyone who has a problem with SAD.
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#25571 - 03/26/05 07:19 PM
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Registered: 03/12/04
Posts: 1177
Loc: Decatur, Illinois
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Dotsie, Yes I do protect my eyes and also wear a foundation on my face that is spf 15. I use lots of lotion every day, and lotion when I tan.
If I had to choose between the POSSIBILITY of skin cancer and the well being it give me right now...well, I'm still tanning!
Sherri
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#25572 - 03/27/05 08:34 AM
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Registered: 03/22/05
Posts: 4876
Loc: Canada
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Thanks for the light therapy advice...I've was diagnosed with SAD about 20 years ago. At that time, the lamp was way out of my budget's reach. So I've just always tried to walk 30-40 minutes in the sunshine everyday and that seems to keep the SAD at arm's reach most of the time. Even just knowing what it is helps to not get too sucked in by it.
I'm very fair-skinned, rarely tan, but burn easily. Two years ago I decided to try the tanning salon before our annual trek south, to see if that would help me tan vs burn. Lying there basking in that glorious heat was very rejuvenating, until one day I could actually smell my flesh burning. I ignored it, but the next few times it happened again. So finally I lay there asking myself why on earth was I doing this to my poor body? Who was going to see my tan anyway? It's the dead of winter and we have to wear tons of clothes, so any tanned bits get covered up. I realized that for me personally it was more vanity than anything else, I just wanted to be able to show off to everyone else a glorious winter tan (which my skin is probably never going to be capable of attaining anyway). But all I usually end up with is a very un-gloriously blotchy red face and even more hot flashes. So I stopped going.
Whatever I'm doing these days seems to be working to keep the SAD manageable. My bigger problem is the social angst, which probably won't respond to light therapy anyway; walking seems to be better for me all around, if and when I can drag myself out of my cave...
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#25575 - 03/29/05 08:49 AM
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Registered: 03/12/04
Posts: 1177
Loc: Decatur, Illinois
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Thanks ladies for your love and concern. I probably won't stop tanning. It just makes me feel healthier and happier. And, since I'm retiring and hopefully my stress level will go way down, I hope to drop off of quite a bit of my meds for depression and anxiety. I'll probably replace one stress with financial worries, but I still feel I'm doing the right thing.
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#25576 - 03/29/05 08:53 AM
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Registered: 07/09/08
Posts: 23647
Loc: Maryland
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Eagle, walking is a cure for many ails. I'm glad you've realized this. It gets those endorphins going. chatty, can you get the bulds at Target, or Walmart? What are they called? Dianne, let me know how it goes. The thought of wearing shorts with these white road map legs is too much.
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#25577 - 03/31/05 10:04 PM
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Registered: 12/30/04
Posts: 23
Loc: Grande Prairie
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Hello Eagle I know how you feel, I also felt isolated until my daughter turned me onto this site. I live on the other side of Canada. The snow is slowly melting, the sun is shinning, spring looks like it has arrived but I won't hold my breath on that one. I just turned fifty-seven don't feel it, have to grown children and two grandchildren, I work full time as well, if I didn't work I would go crazy, even though my kids have family of their own, I still suffer from empty nest syndrome.
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#25578 - 04/01/05 04:25 AM
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Registered: 03/22/05
Posts: 4876
Loc: Canada
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Hi Chichii, You're a little farther north too. We were in Edmonton about this time last year for our grandson's hockey tournament (he was barely five at the time, but it was some of the best hockey we've ever seen!) It was COLD there, and lots of snow. But we made a wonderful tour along what they called the "cowboy trail": Caroline, Rocky Mountain House. We really enjoyed the area, especially driving along along the Rockies.
I can't work because of some persistent health problems. Loneliness was a huge issue until I came here to this forum. My mood, mental health, outlook and emotional well-being have all drastically improved since arriving here, although the energy levels are still erratic and undependable.
I enjoy being retired, even though it was a forced retirement due to health. For a long time, I felt guilty, useless, restless, isolated and an emotional wreck. Now, most days there aren't enough hours in the day to do everything there is to do...and I hardly even leave the house! Imagine what I could do with a little more reliable energy in the fuel tank...
Don't know how I'd fit a job into it all. Wouldn't want to have to now.
How old are your grandchildren? Do they live close to you? My husband has one four year old tri-lingual granddaughter here in Ottawa (she's his by blood and mine by heart), and a six-year-old Spiderman-crazy nephew in Edmonton we've both *adopted* as our grandson. [ March 31, 2005, 08:26 PM: Message edited by: Eagle Heart ]
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#25581 - 04/01/05 06:32 PM
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Registered: 03/12/04
Posts: 1177
Loc: Decatur, Illinois
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Hey that's the way I feel about my tanning too!!
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