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#24470 - 09/21/05 09:26 PM
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Registered: 09/20/05
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Loc: Pagosa Springs, Colorado
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Doodle50 - I also welcome you and I understand completely about wanting to start a whole new life somewhere else. Two years ago, my husband and I discovered a beautiful town in SW Colorado. We had both lived in NY all of our lives (he's 47, I'm 46). We had no family there, no job lined up. But we did it anyway. We;ve been here for 10 months and it has been an adjustment. He's finally starting a business, I'm finally making some friends, and even though our older sons complain about this place every day, we know we did the right thing. Right now, I'm sitting on my front deck with my laptop and the beautiful San Juan Mountains are right in front of me. The weather is gorgeous, the people are friendly, the air is clean...I always liked the beach, too, but with all these hurricanes, I'm glad we picked the mountains. They are unmovable, reassuring and inspiring. God bless you, whatever yo do!
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#24471 - 09/25/05 07:43 AM
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Registered: 09/22/05
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Hi Doodle50, I understanding about starting a new life, too. I was married for 34 years and lived in Colorado; got divorced and remarried and we decided to start over in South Carolina. We live in Seneca on the shores of Lake Keowee and yes, I was scared to death. But I have made more friends here in less than 2 years than I had in the big city. We can drive to Charleston (though we haven't yet - that's another story), can drive to the beach but don't live close enough to worry about the storms; we are close to Greenville and Atlanta where culture abounds - and there is so much to do right here. This is the place for singles like you as well as old married couples, and we all interact with each other, have fun - there is a fabulous Newcomers Club (look up Newcomers of the Foothills on the Internet) - I could go on and on. Just let me know if you want more information! I'm new to BWS also - the world is full of new beginnings! I look forward to 'chatting' with you! Dreamer
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#24472 - 09/25/05 07:48 AM
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Registered: 09/22/05
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P.S. I'm now sitting here laughing as I note how many of us, me included, misspelled your name! Sorry, Doddle50! You can call me Dreemer!
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#24473 - 09/25/05 03:19 PM
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Registered: 09/24/05
Posts: 171
Loc: 10 yrs in OH now, 47 yrs in Tx
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Doddle50, HI! I am new here also. It is nice to meet you! The only way you will make a new, different, and exciting life for yourself is to do it yourself. You know no one else will do it for you. It is all up to you! Also, isn't the nerviousness part of the excitement of something as interesting and adventurous as this. I do have some suggestions: Write down how much cash you will have (apx.) when you DO move. If you can afford it, give yourself a deadline of X months to find a job. If you have not found one in this period of time, move. You will find something soon! Do not buy right away. Rent for a while, and consider locations, property taxes, resale value, just the size of house that is right for you now (if you do not need it for resale value, do not over size, you will be sorry, you gotta clean it LOL), facter in some for up keep and things going wrong i.e. plumbing and such. Compare that to condos, their monthly upkeep you have to pay (no mowing lawns and probably a pool and weigh room) against a house. If you need help, a financial planner and good real estate agent (hopefully both recommended by someone you know) in the area you move to would be a great help, just watch out and don't let him handle all your money. Be a hands on person! My advise from experience and what my husband says! LOL In NO way is it being selfish! Good luck on you move! OOO sorry this was so long! LOL
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#24475 - 09/26/05 06:09 PM
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Registered: 01/24/05
Posts: 1550
Loc: Colorado
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Doodle,
In your "dreams" what will you be doing in your new place. Specifics, please!
Danita
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#24476 - 09/30/05 06:06 PM
Re: A New Beginning at 50's
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Registered: 09/19/05
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Loc: Ware Shoals, South Carolina
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Dreamer - Thank you for such sound information and your experience with moving here to the upstate of South Carolina. I must say where you have chose to live is beautiful country and Greenville and Altanta do have so much to offer. I have lived in Ware Shoals for 36 years and now would love to meet new people (women and men) as friends to see the world from a different view......the other side of the horizon has always allured me; even in my childhood years......and learning new things keep the boomer's mind afresh. Again, thanks. I have just found a new friend.
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