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#20735 - 10/11/05 05:29 AM
Why is there air?
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Registered: 10/10/05
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Loc: maryland
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Does anyone remember that Bill Cosby routine. Anyway, I recently passed the 40 mark and that year I really had a hardtime with, "What am I doing with my life? Is it important (enough)? What should I be doing? Am I missing out by not being involved in community events, clubs etc... which would be painful since I don't really like groups of people. Those thoughts left me for a while but then this weekend I felt the stinging wasp of doubt visit me again and again. Today I convinced myself that we only travel around life once and we should have as much happiness as possible. What are others life theorys?
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#20737 - 10/11/05 06:05 AM
Re: Why is there air?
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Registered: 09/20/05
Posts: 2560
Loc: Pagosa Springs, Colorado
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Froggy, you mentioned somewhere else that you are kind of a hermit and here you say you don't like large groups. Has anyone ever suggested you may be a Highly Sensitive Person, as talked about in the book of the same name by Elaine Aron? If you want to find out, you can visit the website and take a test. www.hsperson.comBTW - welcome!
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#20739 - 10/13/05 03:51 PM
Re: Why is there air?
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Registered: 11/22/02
Posts: 1149
Loc: Ohio
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Froggy, my belief is that the purpose of this life is preparation for the next. Here is where we develop the spiritual eyes, ears and limbs we'll use for eternity. We do this by reflecting godly qualities and being of service. Living in the spiritual world only brings happiness.
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#20740 - 10/14/05 07:02 AM
Re: Why is there air?
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Registered: 11/11/04
Posts: 3503
Loc: Colorado
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Froggy, life theory. That's a good question. I do believe in an after life. Life is to love and be loved, to seek the light and to shed the light. By the grace of God, I have learned that we are born expecting to give and receive love. Loving ourselves and others is a higher purpose. Love and Light, Lynn
PS This theory is hard to apply when on is 1) in endless traffic 2) on endless hold 3) in endless menu 4) when dealing with goverment agencies 5) when dealing with health insurance companies 6) while waiting in line 7)
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#20741 - 10/14/05 11:20 PM
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Registered: 07/08/05
Posts: 245
Loc: Ocala Florida
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I believe that life is a wheel- we are born, we live and love, hurt and despair - people join us and some leave and we die and do it all over again until we learn what we need to know and then rest in peace If you feel you've missed something maybe you have I have gone through cycles in my life when anyone outside my immediate family was unnecessary. Then I needed people and everyone to love me now I just need a few loving people and a sense of home where I can be warm and peaceful and quiet
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#20742 - 10/14/05 11:29 PM
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Registered: 09/20/05
Posts: 2560
Loc: Pagosa Springs, Colorado
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I go by the Catholic version of the purpose of life: To know, love and serve the Lord in this life and to live with Him forever in the next...
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#20743 - 10/15/05 03:58 AM
Re: Why is there air?
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Registered: 03/22/05
Posts: 4876
Loc: Canada
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I struggled with this question a few years ago while bed-ridden with severe fatigue and depression. I was utterly broken, fried, disabled and couldn't do anything more than roll out of bed to pee and eat once in awhile. As I lay there, day after day, too weary to sleep, and too physically exhausted to get out of bed, I started wondering why I was still alive. I was good for nothing. A miserable burden to myself and everyone around me.
It was a long dark night, and there often seemed to be no point in waking up in the morning. But deep inside of me, I already knew that death wasn't the answer. I knew that as long as I was still breathing, there was a reason that I was still alive.
So I had to hunt for that reason. What possible use could I be to God, hubby or anyone in the condition I was in, completely unable to get out of that bed, unable even to read, write or care about anything or anyone.
The answer was a long time coming, but when it came, it was so simple, it made me weep. In God's eyes, just breathing was enough. "You are worthwhile simply because you exist" were the words He planted in my soul. Very simple, but those words, that love and mercy, settled into my deepest wounded being and took root there and healing began. I found myself able to begin replacing my weeping searching with what little I COULD do from my bed...prayer...praying for people, I prayed for people for hours. Slowly but surely I started to find enough energy to begin "rewiring my attic", getting my mind untangled from all the lies that were feeding my self-loathing.
Recovery was very slow, still on-going. For a long time, I couldn't allow anyone else into my life except my husband and brother. Then slowly I was able to allow others to come in, for brief visits, at arms length. I'm still not comfortable with too many people in my life at one time and sometimes have to pull back.
But there came a point a few months ago when it was time to reach out beyond that shrunken world, and that's when I stumbled into this site. Being here, and witnessing the healing that's been going on inside of me since my arrival here, I am convinced that simply learning to love each other authentically, one person at a time if that's all we can handle at the moment, and allowing ourselves to be loved in return is the most crucial, healing thing we can do for ourselves, God, others and the world at large.
Sorry for the long-winded answer. Again.
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#20744 - 10/15/05 06:13 AM
Re: Why is there air?
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The Divine Ms M
Registered: 07/07/03
Posts: 4894
Loc: Orange County, California
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Froggy,
I believe we are put on this earth in this form, for the good that we do on this earth. Although I believe in reincarnation of the soul, it's more important to concentrate on NOW. The future will take care of itself in its own way.
We exist to love and be loved, to help and be helped. If you are truly happy, then you bring joy to those around you.
All loving and caring acts are important. We should each work according to our own likes and abilities. Doing something on a large scale is no more important than the small everyday acts of kindness and compassion. It's all "work" that needs to be done, and each of us fills our own special niche.
It's possible for you to help others in ways that don't involve crowds or groups of people. You can work behind the scenes at an organization, do internet research, or maybe just help one-on-one in whatever capacity.
Whatever you're doing with your life, it's "enough" it you feel fulfilled and happy. Don't rate your life according to others' expectations.
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