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#205032 - 06/26/10 11:42 AM Re: Sex & Blame questions [Re: Ellemm]
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Registered: 05/05/09
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Loc: Michigan
We all have a right to boundaries.....we need physical and emotional boundaries and no one has a right to violate them. Life is all about choices (as you said); if someone CHOOSES to cheat; it is their responsibility.

I got a divorce after 31 years of abuse, so Understand when you say you are "reeling:

Be kind to yourself. I don't know where people come up with these thoughts, that you should have sex or anything else you don't feel like doing.

Hugs, Alice

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#205075 - 06/27/10 01:16 PM Re: Sex & Blame questions [Re: Alice]
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No one else can make you happy; it has to come from within. And IMO, a person has to be content and totally in love, before
sex can be enjoyed and add anything to a relationship. If you're
sick, then he's the one being selfish. Nobody should come on to
a person who's not feeling well! IMO!
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#205101 - 06/28/10 10:32 AM Re: Sex & Blame questions [Re: jabber]
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clarity, it amazes me how someone can change so drastically just by hanging out with a new group of people. I'm sorry for your heartache, but grateful you've chosen to begin again. I'm sure it isn't easy, but appreciate your spirit with regards to being single at midlife.
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