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#156845 - 08/19/08 01:17 PM
Re: Nurses with issues!!
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Jabber, that's really the bottom line, isn't it. I too have the utmost respect and compassion for the nurses and the stress, burnout and difficulties they face every single day of their working lives. There's no way I could do that joy, no way!!! And I'm profoundly grateful for those who DO do that job.
But no matter how much compassion and understanding we have for the caregivers, we cannot "unsee" the distress and inadvertent neglect that our loved ones suffer. I would dearly love to see the health care environment improve so that nursing staff are not under such terrible pressure - but the sad reality is that illness doesn't hit a person at someone else's convenience, and basic needs don't wait for those improvements to be implemented.
Advocacy for the patient and prayer for the caregivers...I personally don't know what else to do when you're outside of the profession yet inside the suffering of a loved one.
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#156878 - 08/19/08 09:38 PM
Re: Nurses with issues!!
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Nurses, to me, should be saluted. They fall into a similar category as the military, for me. I've been around enough to say it's a 'gross' job. When in the position to do so, I help as I can, without making them look as if their service is lacking... I, too, have made beds, held potty tools, cleaned up cr**, fetched food, applied medicines and bandaging, etc. I've visited rooms where other patients can't seem to settle to talk, read or sing (and I can't sing) to them. Since the majority of the hospital visits have been for my older relatives, the beds have been filled with the older generation. It's a close race as to which my heart goes out to the most - the older generation and baby/children, even though children and babies have more advocates and tend to have better nurses, aides and techs.
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#157162 - 08/22/08 12:45 PM
Re: Nurses with issues!!
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I think Washington's death with dignity law should be applauded! It was 5 years ago that I visited many nursing homes around Atlanta thinking it was time to find one for my mother. I sure hope they are getting better because what I saw was really disturbing! Of course, I was looking at Medicaid homes, perhaps the ones for people who can pay are nicer? Anyway, I ended up quiting my job and moving her in here. Just could not have put my worst enemy in some of the ones I saw.
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#157253 - 08/23/08 12:26 PM
Re: Nurses with issues!!
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Interesting points, Anne. In hospice, all we can do is to medicate and make sure they do not suffer. But of course, the wait for death is there. That's all we can do.
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#157709 - 08/26/08 09:47 PM
Re: Nurses with issues!!
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Anne, your clients are very blessed to have you as their caregiver. I really love the tenderness in your voice when you talk about them. I would be so lucky to have someone like you in my corner when the time comes.
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