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#15145 - 07/03/05 09:20 PM
My mom just died
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Registered: 07/01/05
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Loc: Florida
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She died of cancer and i miss her so darn much. I'm 18 and i have a 5 year old brother and a 2 year old brother.
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#15146 - 07/03/05 09:20 PM
Re: My mom just died
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Registered: 07/01/05
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Loc: Florida
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She died of lung cancer and my dad is changing and all and i'm so sad.
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#15148 - 07/03/05 09:48 PM
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Registered: 01/27/04
Posts: 1423
Loc: Warrenton, Virginia
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So very sorry to learn of your loss CEJ. It's a sad time for your family and a huge adjustment as well. As Smile said, I too will certainly pray for love, peace and joy to return to your entire family.
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#15154 - 07/08/05 08:36 PM
Re: My mom just died
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Registered: 06/03/04
Posts: 2830
Loc: Massachusetts, USA
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Dear CEJ: I'm sorry for your loss! Please know that I will be praying for you and your family? I'll also add you and yours to my prayer group's list. Do you believe in God? I pray you find comfort knowing that in our difficult times he is carrying us IN HIS ARMS. If I can be of any help, please don't hesitate to ask, just PM me. I noticed you're a singer too. Singing helps me get through difficult times. You like to write... this is a good time to put pen to paper. Also, focusing in helping others around me, helps me put things in perspective and forget my own difficulties. Do you have any relatives nearby that can help? I know this is a very challenging time in your life. I wish I could give you a hug. Please know that you can count on us!
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#15156 - 08/20/05 03:14 AM
Re: My mom just died
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Registered: 05/21/05
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CEJ,
You're so young to lose your mother. I would imagine it makes you feel vulnerable and scared and maybe angry, and sad, and guilty for what you might have said and done differently. There's a jumble of emotions that go with loss. And you can feel all of them at the same time, or not at all. They can come in waves. They can attack you when you are feeling down.... One thing to remember is that there is no one right way to grieve. There are books you can read that will help you understand what other people have felt.
What I choose to do, whenever any really awful thing happens to me, is to use it as an opportunity to become the best person I can be, to grow into all I am capable of, even when I don't know what that is. By doing so, as your momma watches over you, she will be proud, so proud of you.
Feel free to send me a private message or contact me through my website. If you need a hand to hold. I am here.
Blessings, dear one. My love is with you.
Vi
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