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#14250 - 01/19/06 12:00 AM Re: Is This Person an Alcoholic??
smilinize Offline
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Registered: 11/08/03
Posts: 3512
Loc: outer space
An addict once told me that no matter who how much he loved anyone or any thing, he would always love his drug more. It would always come first and no one and nothing would ever keep him from it. Not his wife, not his children, not his family, no one. He said even during sex his mind was only on the drug and how the sex might help him get it.

I've seen that proven by addicts and alcoholics over and over. The only love they ever have for anyone or any thing is the degree to which it makes their relationship with their drug possible.

The addict has no choice, the enabler has the choice, but only if they are willing to make it.

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#14251 - 02/21/06 04:30 AM Re: Is This Person an Alcoholic??
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Registered: 02/20/06
Posts: 1
Loc: Spokane
Number5 Hi I'm new and have been in recovery for 20years. The one thing I learn is a drug is a drug especially when you have to drink everyday I can only call myself an acoholic.There is Alnon for the wife you see I learned we do what we do to cover-up pain or tradgies so what ever the problem God can help if he wants it but you he can help the other way throgh alnon I a' a recovering Heroin Addidic but use AA it works very well good spiritual prgram

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#14252 - 02/23/06 12:39 AM Re: Is This Person an Alcoholic??
Dotsie Offline
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Registered: 07/09/08
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Loc: Maryland
lionshadow, congrats on being in recovery for 20 years. You have lots to be proud of. Seems like the spirituality offered in those programs is life changing.

Welcome aboard. Please jump in the Welcome forum and introduce yourself.

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#14253 - 02/24/06 12:34 AM Re: Is This Person an Alcoholic??
Dianne Offline
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Registered: 05/24/04
Posts: 6123
Loc: Arizona
Sue, they have open AA meetings that he could attend. He will be welcomed with open arms and hear the truth.

When my daughter was in rehab, the majority of the people were teenagers.

Maybe if he went to a meeting someone would take him under their wings and help him.

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#14254 - 02/24/06 07:11 PM Re: Is This Person an Alcoholic??
Dotsie Offline
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Registered: 07/09/08
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Loc: Maryland
I just finihsed reading the book "Smashed." I wish I could say it was unbelievable but it is absolutely believable.

The gal who wrote it was is in her early 20s. She writes about her drunken stupors that began at age 14. She is an incredible writer. Very gifted.

I highly recommend her book to mothers of young gals and their daughters.

I hope this is the first of many books for her.

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