I have her in my prayers, Celtic. The fact that he is going to therapy shows that this could be headed in the right direction.

chick

She feeling good and hopefull anno and thinks he been under a lot of presure with bussiness etc which has taken a bit toil....

chick i hope its that way...

make matters worse they are uk celebrities...press gets hold of this,... well our press is like a pack of wild dogs who love scandle. It be one awfull big extra burder to place on them both...

well in trust and faith cheers

I'm here too Celtic! Praying for peace and happiness between them.

In my prayers,
Casey

Definitely will pray that all goes well for your friend and that the children won't have to suffer. They are the innocent ones who always bear the brunt of out weaknesses. I know the fear of losing someone after many years of living as man and wife.

Its like major surgery. Takes a long time to heal. But healing does come after surgery. I hope their marriage will endure this time of testing. Maybe your friend should focus on her husband and not open her home for a while. Just maybe. I've been wondering about that lately. Maybe there comes a time in our lives when our men need our focused attention. Then after a time of healing, we can go back to nurturing everyone else. Any thoughts?

her husband can be away for a week or weeks at a time doing PR or T.V. programmes. When he is their theirs a change in the houshold she their to give him atttension...that post on stress relife got me thinking and maybe she know it too but her helping gives her a spiritual purpise and she recives a lot by giving. At this moment she got a lot of support from those she close to and have helped. The kids are of uni age but one late commer is still quite young so his mates are and need be round the house.

As long as partners are getting adiquite attension then that enough, isent it? unless their a time of crisis then of course they need and deserve more....Its a balance between giving attension to sort out the relashionship which has to be a priority, but not getting lost in it to the point that you give too much away to one person or lost to frends and your own method of support i gess in life it gotta be a balances between diffrent things and loyalties. Its hard to answere in relashion to you becouse their no spacifics...

I rember a bit back your hubbie giving you some ultimatum that the kids had to be gone by start of april. Is that what has been playing on your mind or what your referring to?

celtic, how are things on their homefront these days? Is hubby away or at home?