Ladies, I need some advice on this one. My good friend of 14 years is having a rough patch with her husband, and divorce seems imminent. When she tells me what is going on (when she can) my heart just bleeds for her. He told her on their 36th anniv. that he is considering divorce. I know this is difficult (beyond belief) for her and other than just being angry and sad for her, I don't know what to say...to compound the matters there is a distance factor, so emails are the best thing to keep in touch, very infrequent phone calls. What can I say to her, how can I support her (when I know what she is going thru) without sounding preachy? Please share your thoughts on this, I am hoping and praying that it all works out for them. Also counting my blessings....and she is one of them! Thanks!