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#85360 - 08/16/06 01:30 AM Step parent names
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Do your step children call you by your given name or mom and dad? What do you prefer and why?
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#85361 - 08/16/06 11:13 AM Re: Step parent names [Re: chatty lady]
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Mine call me by my given name and my children do the same with their stepdad. It is what we prefer. I'm not their mother. They all ranged in age between 20 to 30 when we got married.

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#85362 - 08/26/06 10:11 PM Re: Step parent names [Re: Louisa]
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Met a couple at Church last week-end and she introduced me to their three kids, after services. They were actually his from a previous marriage and she makes them call her Mrs. Barrett..not mom, not her first name which is June, but Mrs. Barrett, and they have been her steps for several years already. They range in age from about 5 to maybe 13.
I am too critical or does that suck???
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#85363 - 08/27/06 02:34 AM Re: Step parent names [Re: chatty lady]
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That's a bit formal, I think. Sends a strange message.
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#85364 - 08/28/06 03:35 PM Re: Step parent names [Re: Louisa]
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It sucks, Chatty. Really sucks. She must be a bundle of joy to be around.
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#85365 - 08/28/06 04:01 PM Re: Step parent names [Re: Dianne]
Di Offline
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Registered: 11/15/05
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Given name. They did not meet me until the day before we were married (10 years ago). And even then they did not know I'd be there stepmother until AFTER the wedding. long story!

So, my given name is sufficient for us all!

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#85366 - 01/30/07 10:30 PM Re: Step parent names [Re: Di]
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Registered: 09/26/04
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My raised since 5 step son calls me Mom. My partners sons call me by my first name. Odd if they called me Mrs or Miss or Ms.
Chatty is her name Barrett theirs also?

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#85367 - 01/31/07 12:55 AM Re: Step parent names [Re: chickadee]
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I think most people I know use first name. Good question.
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#85368 - 02/01/07 03:56 PM Re: Step parent names [Re: chatty lady]
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As a stepchild I didn't like it that my mother made us call my stepdad--Daddy. I had a real dad and didn't like it. On the other hand calling him Mr. DeMik would have been worse. I think kids should be given the choice. Let them call you whatever they want. As long as it's respectful.
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#85369 - 02/02/07 02:01 AM Re: Step parent names [Re: Laurel]
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Laurel, great idea. Let the kids choose.
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