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#70251 - 12/01/05 08:40 AM Playing Cupid
Dianne Offline
Queen of Shoes

Registered: 05/24/04
Posts: 6123
Loc: Arizona
I have a wonderful male friend. He's so nice and talented (song writer) and is a loving person. So, I tried to fix him up with a friend who has the same abilities that he has but he's so busy rescuing a battered woman, he's completely blown off my friend. This is the second time he's done it.

He continues to get involved with women who have escaped abusive situations and they are confused and traumatized but he seems to think he can help them. I've told him to stay away, leave them alone, they aren't ready for a normal man but he just keeps doing it!

I'm thinking of starting a 12 step program for Rescuers Anonymous!

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#70252 - 12/02/05 08:42 AM Re: Playing Cupid
Dotsie Offline
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Registered: 07/09/08
Posts: 23647
Loc: Maryland
Dianne, if anyone could do it, you could. Hmmm, another project calling your name!

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#70253 - 12/02/05 08:49 AM Re: Playing Cupid
jawjaw Offline
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Registered: 07/02/03
Posts: 12025
Loc: Alabama
It sounds like to me he wants to be needed, yet he doesn't have enough confidence in himself to be in a "regular" relationship, so he focuses on women who he KNOWS (in his mind) needs someone and he won't be rejected. Thus, the abused women. Maybe he doesn't feel he would be worthy of someone who didn't have issues, or needs.

Good Lord... listen at me. Hey, I am not a doctor, and I don't play one on TV, k?

JJ

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#70254 - 12/01/05 09:05 PM Re: Playing Cupid
Bluebird Offline
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Registered: 09/20/05
Posts: 2560
Loc: Pagosa Springs, Colorado
JJ, that makes sense to me.

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#70255 - 12/01/05 09:10 PM Re: Playing Cupid
smilinize Offline
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Registered: 11/08/03
Posts: 3512
Loc: outer space
Hey JJ,

I say you start playing one on TV. You'd be great at it. It could be your next career.

I can see it now. The doctor is IN. Dianne's friend could be your first patient. Did she say he's good looking?

You go Dr. JJ.
smile

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#70256 - 12/01/05 09:30 PM Re: Playing Cupid
jawjaw Offline
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Registered: 07/02/03
Posts: 12025
Loc: Alabama
Bluebird, thank you. No one has ever accused me of making sense before! hahahah....And SMILES, good looking? Good looking? How bout rich? Why yes, I'm shallow, why do you ask? hahahahah....Hey, come to think of it, I wouldn't mind being a doctor, especially if I get to administer the shots...hahahah. Yep, bend over, this won't hurt a bit...teehee.

Oh lord, I should write humor...

Dr. JJ

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#70257 - 12/01/05 09:36 PM Re: Playing Cupid
Bluebird Offline
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Registered: 09/20/05
Posts: 2560
Loc: Pagosa Springs, Colorado
You're welcome, JJ.

No one has ever accused me of having any sense...

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#70258 - 12/01/05 09:41 PM Re: Playing Cupid
jawjaw Offline
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Registered: 07/02/03
Posts: 12025
Loc: Alabama
Oh contrair, my dear friend the Bluebird! But you have plenty!

Hugs,

JJ

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#70259 - 12/01/05 09:44 PM Re: Playing Cupid
Dianne Offline
Queen of Shoes

Registered: 05/24/04
Posts: 6123
Loc: Arizona
I keep giving him copies of my book to give to his women who he is trying to rescue. [Roll Eyes]

He's so southern, "Now Dianne, I know you're gonna fuss at me..." as he begins yet another relationship story of a battered woman he's trying to help. I told him it's he who needs help, not the women.

If he wasn't such a sweet guy, I'd have to smack some sense into him or something. Wait, I can't do that. I'm against physical violence. [Razz] [Wink]

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#70260 - 12/01/05 09:55 PM Re: Playing Cupid
Bluebird Offline
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Registered: 09/20/05
Posts: 2560
Loc: Pagosa Springs, Colorado
[Big Grin]

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