I will be turning 40 at the end of the month. This last year has been a real trial for me. I've sent my oldest off to college, quit my job from my father and am fighting to keep my marriage of 21 years going strong. I feel like the world is crashing down on me and there's nothing I can do about it. I have become so insecure in my marriage that I am almost "needy" and that is not my personality. My husband and children all supported my quitting my job but of course the money is short right now until I re-employ myself. I am not sleeping well. It has just dawned on me that all these feelings I am stirred up about could be about me turning 40, is this normal? Any suggestions for help out there? [Eek!]