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#152693 - 07/06/08 07:15 AM
Re: can't quite imagine
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"Peeling" is always difficult, Dotsie. My grandchildren and I suffer from separation anxiety. But, one explains to the older ones that I have work to attend to and they have an uncle who also needs me to be around. The little one just bawls but, happily waves goodbye all the same when I board the train back to London.
My relationship with my grandchildren is the result of a healthy relationship I have with my daughter and her husband. When love begets love, then my role as a grandmother is acknowledged, wanted, needed and appreciated. But, most importantly, my daughter is married to a most wonderful man. The role of SIL's and DILs can easily be trespassed if one is not at one mind and heart with them. Fortunately, my SIL comes from a family of similar dynamics and values to ours. That is a blessing, because no matter how closely my daughter and I relate to each other, if my SIL turned out entirely in contrast to the man he is, then we'd all be playing a different ballgame.
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#152694 - 07/06/08 08:48 AM
Re: can't quite imagine
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That reply Lola is so true.And it follows that total respect for each other exists. Shared values and dynamics are so important.
In addition being like that leaves energy to share with those other that come into your sphere.Unlike negativity which depletes.
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#152697 - 07/06/08 06:35 PM
Re: can't quite imagine
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A friend has almost the same with her Grandsons Lola but they are growing bigger.She gives them a book allowance and it has to be spent on books that are read and shared with her..she craftily got a hardly ever reader to start to enjoy books way back when JK Rowling started Harry Potter. Mountain ash
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#152701 - 07/07/08 08:31 AM
Re: can't quite imagine
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Having 6 kids and 12 grandkids, plus two more on their way, and everyone lives fairly close -- is awesome! We are very close-knit, we spend alot of time together although not all at the same time unless if it is a party. Some days I have to think...okay which grand did I not talk to today or hug and kiss LOL; which kid did we not touch base with. Our heads will spin at times, but its a good thing!
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