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#87542 - 09/06/06 06:12 PM
How Do I Fire My Hairdresser??
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This is really a problem for me. I have posted some time ago about the hair loss I have been experiencing for the past 3 years since my heart attack. The hair loss is due to the medication, according to my cardiologist but probably also due to menopause. I see the loss more than the average person looking at me but professionals have also seen it, especially the thinness. Anyway, I have been going to the same hairdresser for over 20 years. I like her very much. Others in my family use her as well. Her shop is local in my community and she always will find the time to squeeze me in no matter how busy. The problem is I hate my hair (not just the thinning). She is not "up" on the styles, and right now I need someone who can make my hair look the best it can be. Today, I was desperate for a haircut. My hair is layered but the layers were way too long, thus making the thinness look worse on top. My regular girl was on vacation and I commited a mortal sin! I went to the leading competitor in our town. Some friends go there and recommended a male hairdresser that was EXCELLENT! I am so happy with the results, and that is quite a statement coming from me! He layered the sides, cut the top shorter so that it actually looks THICKER! I can't believe the difference. Now, what do I do? How do I fire my hairdresser of 20 years? It will be very awkward for me and for the family members that still use her. Am I being ridiculous? Hubby thinks so. He claims that since I am paying for the service, I should love the results. I agree completely but don't want to hurt her feelings. What a silly rant, huh?
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#87544 - 09/06/06 07:08 PM
Re: How Do I Fire My Hairdresser??
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Registered: 07/06/06
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Loc: Alabama
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Pam,
The old song claims there are 50 ways to leave you lover...then why should it be so hard to leave your hairdresser? It just is. I agree with Anne that you can just change and make no mention of it but if your town is as small as mine--you'll eventually have to let her know about it.
I hate confrontation and avoid it at all costs. One thing to do would be to go back to your original hairdresser while your cut is still fresh and let her know that you were desperate when she was out of town and had to get it cut but that you really love it and want her to see how it's done so she can maintain it.
Then she'll know that you aren't quite satisfied and will have a chance to cut it the way you like it. If she doesn't then she won't be surprised when you don't come back.
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#87546 - 09/06/06 11:36 PM
Re: How Do I Fire My Hairdresser??
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Thanks so much girls! JJ, never thought that it could be a one time goodie haircut! I think I will give him another try in about 5 or 6 weeks and take it from there. I do however need a color in a couple of weeks so maybe I will try him for that too. I will have to sneak in and out, this town is not too big and I know too many people!!
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#87547 - 09/06/06 11:40 PM
Re: How Do I Fire My Hairdresser??
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Registered: 07/02/03
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For a small fee I won't say a word. Hey, otherwise, I'm singing like a canary.... WHAT? JJ
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#87548 - 09/07/06 06:44 AM
Re: How Do I Fire My Hairdresser??
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Registered: 10/02/05
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I agree.......don't say a word!!! I finally gave up on my stylist after many years because I got tired of paying her so much! It was over $100 for a color, cut, style. That's just to much!!! Now I go to a GREAT stylist who only charges me $63, and she found the right color for me the first time. About the hair loss. I started to lose my hair, went to a dermatologist, they put me on Iron, my hair turned curly, was on the Iron for over a year, my hair is back, very thick, went off the Iron, still have tons of hair, but isn't that curly any more. Wrote all that in one breath! Maybe you should have your blood tested, just for the heck of it to see if there is something that can be done. Lynne
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#87549 - 09/07/06 06:45 AM
Re: How Do I Fire My Hairdresser??
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Whoops!!!! I forgot....I'm on Biotin and Vitamin E also. Lynne
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#87550 - 09/07/06 12:30 PM
Re: How Do I Fire My Hairdresser??
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Registered: 08/25/05
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I think hair loss has a lot to do with hormones if it isn't caused by medication. Whenever I've had a hair loss it was due to stress and I learned recently that when you are stressed it affects your hormones. I lost some hair last year and it's growing back now that I'm on my bioidentical hormones.
I have a friend who has always had very thin hair and I wonder if she had her hormone levels tested, maybe it would get thicker.
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