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#92144 - 10/29/06 10:52 PM Re: Has your marriage survived an affair? [Re: ]
Pam R. Member Registered: 03/10/06 Posts: 404	I fully agree with you Anne327 and wondered when someone would say what you did! To have gotten into the marriage based on all that stuff was incredible...unless, of course, she didn't know he was a rapist. Even still, I am sure our Lord did not put us on this earth to try and change people like him. That is the job of professionally trained doctors and in in some cases, Security Guards and Wardens in jails. _________________________ Pam
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#92145 - 10/29/06 11:30 PM Re: Has your marriage survived an affair? [Re: Pam R.]
Di Member Registered: 11/15/05 Posts: 2798 Loc: NM, transplant from NJ	Again, until the Lord tells her to leave, she is staying. She's a testimony to us all! I sure love my friend. _________________________ Southwest Body Gear here ~ NEWLY updated website with many new products!
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#92146 - 10/30/06 01:10 AM Re: Has your marriage survived an affair? [Re: Di]
chatty lady Writer Registered: 02/24/04 Posts: 20267 Loc: Nevada	Is she waiting for the Lord to send her an email? I'm sorry Di, but I think she is ignoring good common sense here and doing whats convenient for her at this time. I believe she is terrified of leaving and being alone, but I don't know your friend so its all speculation with me....I have wanted to be honest with you about this but have held back until now. I believe someone like me calling herself a friend should be honest no matter what, thats just me, sorry... _________________________ Take a peek at my BLOG: http://charleen-micheles.blogspot.com/
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#92147 - 10/30/06 02:03 AM Re: Has your marriage survived an affair? [Re: chatty lady]
Di Member Registered: 11/15/05 Posts: 2798 Loc: NM, transplant from NJ	Oh no apology needed.Honesty is best! My friend is trusting in the Lord. Who are we to question God??? It's called long-suffering...one of the fruits of the Spirit. (see Galations) _________________________ Southwest Body Gear here ~ NEWLY updated website with many new products!
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#92148 - 10/30/06 03:45 AM Re: Has your marriage survived an affair? [Re: Di]
chatty lady Writer Registered: 02/24/04 Posts: 20267 Loc: Nevada	It is so hard when a marriage becomes one sided, someone is always destroyed by the others infidelity. I have been there literally and still remain wounded even after all these years. I pray she finds her way and collects her strength to do whatever she must. The longer we wait, the harder it becomes however. You are a good friend to stand by her whatever she decides. _________________________ Take a peek at my BLOG: http://charleen-micheles.blogspot.com/
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#92149 - 10/30/06 04:22 AM Re: Has your marriage survived an affair? [Re: chatty lady]
Di Member Registered: 11/15/05 Posts: 2798 Loc: NM, transplant from NJ	Shall we be reminded of what sins Jesus forgave us? My friend has humbled herself...very much so. Years ago, she committed adultery on her X...she now knows how her X felt...he divorced her after their only daughter turned 18. The Lord saved her through that trial. She has hope for her husband...who has been listening to others,including my friend, witness to him. There is hope for all! _________________________ Southwest Body Gear here ~ NEWLY updated website with many new products!
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#92150 - 10/30/06 12:13 PM Re: Has your marriage survived an affair? [Re: Di]
Dotsie Founder Registered: 07/09/08 Posts: 23647 Loc: Maryland	As Danita says, "As long as there is breath, there is hope." _________________________ Founder Emeritus of Boomer Women Speak and the National Association of Baby Boomer Women. www.nabbw.com www.boomerwomenspeak.com
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#92151 - 10/30/06 02:29 PM Re: Has your marriage survived an affair?
Dianne Queen of Shoes Registered: 05/24/04 Posts: 6123 Loc: Arizona	My response may not be popular but I don't feel your friend is a testament to us all in any way. I've said it before here and I'll say it again...why do we turn God into our Holy Repair Man? From my own personal experience, I wasn't waiting on God to show me, although this is what I said. I was just plain scared to leave and used God as my excuse to stay. Plus, you said he was "only verbally abusive." Only? Do you realize what that does to the spirit of a woman? It destroys her. Now, he's cheating. He's a loser. _________________________ If it doesn't feel good, don't do it twice. www.eadv.net Boomer Queen of Shoes
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#92152 - 10/30/06 02:48 PM Re: Has your marriage survived an affair? [Re: Dianne]
Di Member Registered: 11/15/05 Posts: 2798 Loc: NM, transplant from NJ	Thanks, Dotsie. There IS hope for us all! I have to trust that my friend is praying "without ceasing' about this. I pray daily with her as well. It's called UNCONDITIONAL LOVE!! _________________________ Southwest Body Gear here ~ NEWLY updated website with many new products!
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#92154 - 10/30/06 08:26 PM Re: Has your marriage survived an affair? [Re: ]
Dianne Queen of Shoes Registered: 05/24/04 Posts: 6123 Loc: Arizona	I have to question how she has one ounce of self-respect left? _________________________ If it doesn't feel good, don't do it twice. www.eadv.net Boomer Queen of Shoes
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