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#7536 - 12/20/05 12:14 AM
Re: Am I being a brat?
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Registered: 07/08/05
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Loc: Ocala Florida
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Susana- don't settle- let this time be the right time with a man who puts the stars in your eyes I know there are men who are loving and romantic, sensitive and verbal- I found mine- fairytales do come true Like you said- you have all the other stuff on your own- I vote for finding yourself a prince!!!
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#7537 - 12/20/05 12:43 AM
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Registered: 11/15/05
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Loc: NM, transplant from NJ
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Well said, Pattyann.
I agree. Speaking for myself, I "sold out" on certain things. Granted, my DH is wonderful and all my friends are envious, but there is still that "little something" missing.
I also know that no one is perfect. However, since you did post here, it seems you are having second thoughts. You are engaged I presume? Much cheaper and less on the emotions if you do not marry if it "feels" like something is already missing.
Not sure I could have taken heed to my own advice, but this is what I think.
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#7538 - 12/20/05 05:36 AM
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Registered: 10/07/05
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Well...today is a new day. Yesterday Mark and I took about 2 hours to discuss how I felt, his response, and so on. We prayed before we talked and that REALLY helped keep us on the right path and mindset. What we uncovered is that Mark has been playing his emotional cards close to his heart for fear of being hurt again - and he didn't even know it until we talked. He had tried sooooo very hard to make his marriage work but his wife left him and it truly crushed his spirit. Although he's been recovering for about 6 years, yesterday he uncovered a new layer to lift. The most crushing thing about what he experienced is that she actually left him for a female -- ouch.
After that we cried, he held me, made me feel so much better, kissed my tears away and today I'm a new woman. He can be extremely romantic, kind and sensitive - and he was all of those things yesterday. Moreover, he's committed to ongoing change and opening up more to me. We still need more time, and plan to enter pre-marriage counseling, but I sure felt better now.
Thanks to all of you for your thoughts and words. They really helped a lot.
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#7539 - 12/20/05 05:51 AM
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Registered: 09/20/05
Posts: 2560
Loc: Pagosa Springs, Colorado
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Boomer prayers are the best! I'm very happy for you, Susanna!!
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#7540 - 12/20/05 07:57 AM
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Registered: 08/25/05
Posts: 1052
Loc: Ohio
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Aaaawwwwww.......it looks like he's a good guy through and through. Give it time though Susanna!
Daisygirl
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#7541 - 12/20/05 09:06 AM
Re: Am I being a brat?
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Registered: 10/02/05
Posts: 370
Loc: Washington State
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Wow! This made my day! But......Daisygirl is right. Give it some time. Lynne
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