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#7492 - 12/15/05 05:29 AM
Re: When DH's lose their sex drive...do they
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Registered: 09/24/05
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Hi ladies.
Haven't checked into the web site for awhile - but happened onto this topic and felt I should throw out one other possibility to the hubby's low libido.....could he be looking at porn?
That seems to be a big problem for many porn addicts......they lose all interest/energy in having sex with their real life partners- becaouse all of their desires are being 'handled' by their use of porn.
So much time and effort is put into the porn (whether it be magazines, movies or the internet) that they don't need their significant other for their sexual releases.
Just might want to look for a hidden addiction.
If you care to check out the Oprah Show Message Boards - specifically the Nov. 30th show about the minister/singer that revealed his porn addiction. You might be enlightened to learn of all the women discovering that their husbands/boyfriends have been hiding porn addictions for some time.
Just thought it might be worth looking into from a different perspective- not to ignore health issues, of course!!!!!
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#7494 - 12/15/05 08:53 AM
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The Divine Ms M
Registered: 07/07/03
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Loc: Orange County, California
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msdiana, thanks so much! Your words are greatly appreciated. I write because I have to. Maybe some day I'll be famous ![[Wink]](images/icons/wink.gif)
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#7497 - 12/15/05 07:13 PM
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Registered: 08/25/05
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Loc: Ohio
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The WWW is awesome if used in a wholesome way, but there are so many horrible things on it, like porn and gambling. I'm not against gambling, but many young men are getting in trouble with it.
Did you know the UN wants to take control of the internet? That's pretty disturbing......
Daisygirl
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#7498 - 12/16/05 09:59 PM
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Registered: 06/02/05
Posts: 93
Loc: Stuttgart, Germany
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Originally posted by Dotsie:
Kay5, good point. Tha amount and availability of porn on the interent sickens me. Instead of peeking at a Playboy magazine, kids can see anything and everything online. I think it's so sad.
while it's true they can, it's also true that mom and dad can and should put controls in place for both the computer and the child...
some parents crack me up with all the security measures they put into place to keep someone from hacking into their system or getting a virus (as well they should) but don't monitor their children while they're online, don't check history, don't have restrictions in place on the computer itself, and don't restrict the child's time/activity on the computer...
every one of my children gets one half hour a day on the computer...the only exception is homework and we're in the process of getting a computer just for homework and games that will not be connected to the internet...they are currently not allowed to play games on this computer (they have an x-box), nor are they allowed to download anything or open any attachments in their emails without our prior knowledge...any and all violations of my rules have resulted in 30-day suspensions...if the older two (over 18) want more time than 30 minutes (except for homework), they know where the library is located...
whether this were my work station or not, they would not get unchecked free reign of it...i know i'm a hardass about it but i'm also the only parent i know (offline, not online) who doesn't have kid-computer related problems...
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#7499 - 01/03/06 02:19 AM
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Registered: 09/22/05
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Just wanted to bring this subject back up because of a similar discussion in the newspaper today.
The man said he was taking Cialis for erectile dysfunction and it was prescribed by his urologist. He wondered why his urologist was sending him to a cardiologist as well. The doctor's answer in the paper was that erectile dysfunction is a sign of coronary artery disease.
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#7500 - 01/03/06 02:24 AM
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Registered: 11/15/05
Posts: 2798
Loc: NM, transplant from NJ
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OMG!! No wonder I hear of men having heart attacks. Thanks for sharing this with us.
As for me and my dh........nothing yet. :/
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#7501 - 01/03/06 02:36 AM
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Registered: 09/20/05
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Loc: Pagosa Springs, Colorado
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That makes sense since they both involve a healthy flow of blood (or lack of). Interesting.
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