Chatty...I had written a big post yesterday about eHarmony and somehow it never materialized here. I must have done something wrong. Anyway...a couple years ago I met a man through eHarmony - we emailed back and forth a while and then we met for coffee, and then we met for lunch. He was a nice, upstanding man, but in a "kind uncle" sort of way. NO sparks. He had been able to retire early and had begun his "second career"...he had gone to culinary school and was a personal chef. He was consumed with his menu planning for the holidays, etc., and I eat to live, not the other way around, so it wasn't of much interest to me. After the luncheon (at a Thai restaurant) we sort of said our "good-byes" and that was that.

I haven't had any luck since then, but I have to say that the men seem to be of a higher caliber on eHarmony. I haven't joined any other dating sites, but sometimes I do a free "search" and I see an awful lot of creepy types on some of the other dating sites. Ugh...

Anne, no I do not believe they do. However, a site titled:

dontdatehimgirl.com

appears to be where women post all the "scaliwags" of the dating world!

The woman who started that site for cheating creeps was on Dr. Phil one night with an attorney who was disded by some woman on the site, and he was boo-hooing all over the place because she said he was gay and gave her herpes. He is now suing the owner of the site because it is not suppose to be true, but she isn't liable because she isn't the one who said it. It was very interesting to hear the argument.

I have no idea but the site is still up and running...In fact I think even more women are posting about their bad experiences with a man. This guy was so errogant and it was obvious his tail feathers were ruffled, big time...too funny!