Dotsie, age is not the boundary for pain. When Daddy died I was so angry. I talked to God and over time, I felt the love begin to swell up inside of me once again. Talking to God about your pain is an excellent suggestion, as is everything else that Eagle and Gims have offered.

Holding it inside is where the damage comes in...whatever this poor soul does, help her to release the pain. That is when the healing begins. It never goes away, the pain...the edges just soften over time.