Dear Dotsie, ""The best way to find
yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others."
---Mahatma (Mohandas) Gandhi
 Greetings, This time of year, we can get caught up in "all things me." I have to shop. I better clean this. I must cook such and such which is so and so's favorite. I better run and get more--do I have enough ____(fill in the blank). This year I recommend we change our attitudes from servitude to servanthood. If we feel like the martyrs, it's no fun. However, if we consider what we are doing as our gift to others, it changes things. Then we are thinking happy thoughts about our loved ones while preparing. My wish is that we can all play this little mind game because it will surely lift our spirits. And while we're at it, why don't we ask for help? When the chores are split among family members and friends, there is a sense of camaraderie. There's a feeling that everyone is pitching in and our spirits are lifted because we're all in this together. This issue is packed with gems. Be sure you use them to help your live a more passionate midlife. I wish everyone a Thanksgiving that leaves you feeling grateful and appreciated. Onward with grace, Dotsie dots@nabbw.com  What's the latest media news with the National Association of Baby Boomer Women and Boomer Women Speak? To read all about it, click HERE! Testimonial! Dotsie Bregel is the voice of the Baby Boomer women generation. The National Association of Baby Boomer Women and Boomer Women Speak web sites have deep truths that we all can relate to. I look to Dotsie Bregel for guidance, education and inspiration. She is truly a gift to us all. - Linda Hollander, Wealthy Bag Lady, Founder of the Women's Small Business Expo www.wealthybaglady.com.
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Ah, remember the smells of Thanksgiving? Those pumpkin pies baking in the oven, the turkey and dressing, the DESSERTS! Or maybe your favorite memory isn't food at all. Does it include lively "after dinner" conversations and stories that seem to take on a life of their own? Do they seem to grow with each passing year? Let yourself wander back to the tradition of family dinners and tall tales. Give us your favorite Thanksgiving memory. Paint us a picture with words that will have our mouths watering and hearts full of family, friends, and fun. Send us your story by entering our contest and win prizes! Deadline: November 30, 2007 Entry Fee: none Prizes include: Share your story with us and win prizes! For guidelines visit us at BOOMER WOMEN SPEAK ******** Winner of the AUGUST- SEPTEMBER Boomer Women Speak Writing Contest was Mary Anne Hahn with her essay, My Butterfly Year. To read Mary Anne's story, click HERE! NABBW DECEMBER TELESEMINAR -- Helen Gallagher Boomer Tech Skills 
Thursday, December 6, 20077:00 PM EST Helen Gallagher, Founder of Computer Clarity will be offering a one hour teleseminar on boomer technical skills. She launched Computer Clarity, a software consulting and training business in 1996 after a long career in executive positions at Jim Beam Brands, Envirodyne Industries, and AT&T. Spend an hour with us, getting comfortable with technology. Besides having fun, here are ten things you'll learn on the call: 1. Opportunities for taking classes online - language, writing, starting a business 2. Shopping - internet safety, dealing with reputable vendors, keeping good (paperless) records 3. Top tech toys for kids 4. 25 words on the nuts & bolts of internet safety 5. We can't move ahead if we don't stay current 6, The seven essential email skills 7. Avoid the teenager crutch 8. Choose your best time to learn 9. Selecting software 10. Have confidence in yourself - you know more than you think Mark you calendar now for this "learn it all" teleseminar, and we hope you'll join us! NABBW NOVEMBER TELESEMINAR Working From Home - The Modern Woman's Divorce Guide for Boomer Women www.themodernwomansdivorceguide .com Helene Taylor, President and Founder of The Modern Woman's Divorce Guide hosted this information-packed teleseminar for the NABBW members. If you missed this teleseminar, visit the NABBW Member ONLY page which provides links to all our past teleseminars. 
If you are unable to attend any of our seminars, or if you prefer to hear them at your leisure, then visit the NABBW and sign in on our Member ONLY page which provides links to all our past teleseminars. As an added benefit for our members, you can now choose to listen to these teleseminars, or to open the PDF version and read the entire Teleseminar. These are great to listen to while you are working or playing online. Just another benefit of NABBW! BOOMER BOOK REVIEWS We are happy to review member's books, products and services. This is a service that is FREE of CHARGE to NABBW members. Please email us if you are interested in seeing a review of your book, product, or service. NOTE: Once your book has been submitted, please allow ample time for the book to be read and reviewed. Books and products sent for reviews will not be returned. Tracie Peterson, Allison Bottke and Dianne O'Brien Bethany House Publishing www.boomerbabesrock.com Reviewed by by Dotsie Bregel, www.nabbw.com Buy this book!  If you're a boomer and still feel like you have to do it all, think again. While this is something we were told as young women, these three authors share that we can't do it all without something suffering. Written from a biblical perspective, they share honest and practical stories that will help ease your pain of having to be all things to all people. Recognizing God's desire for us to take adequate time for ourselves so we can live balanced lives, awakens us to the fact that it's healthy to set boundaries at home, work and in the community. You will receive permission to say no and make choices while considering your own joy factor because you deserve to be joyful. This is a practical book worth reading and sharing with our daughters. Don't Call Me Mother Linda Joy Myers www.memoriesandmemoirs.com Reviewed by by Melinda Cianos Buy this book! 
In this healing memoir, Linda Joy Myers fits together
the jagged and irregular pieces of her childhood in an
effort to mend her spirit. Images are beautifully crafted
(through the use of prose that are both poetic and rich)
of a life that was riddled with abuse, neglect and
abandonment. She discovers that the same pattern of
abuse has plagued the women in her family for
generations. As an accomplished musician and
writer, Myers is masterful at artistic expression.
She allows the reader into her troubled world---we feel her devastation each time she is left behind by her mother. The scenes of little Linda at the tender age of four, standing at the train station sending her mother off yet again---the high-pitched whistle of the train echoing her exhaustion, loneliness and misery---are gut-wrenching. The reader wants to rush in and rescue her, help her understand, and move her away from the dysfunction that threatens to ruin her. However, in the very next sentence we witness her miraculously bouncing back on her own. We wonder how she does it; how she is able to taste the sweetness of anything that life has to offer when her world is colored by chaos and destruction, but she does. We love and admire her for it. She carries us to the very end of it all and we are moved to understand that she is going to be okay; that we will be okay. Linda Joy Myers is a superb writer and her offering, Don't Call Me Mother, is a gift. She has allowed herself healing through her words and exploration; she presents us with a means to travel on our own healing journey. Her book imparts love and forgiveness in its rawest form. Do not miss the opportunity to experience it for yourself. Got Teeth? A Survivor's Guide: How to keep your teeth or live without them! www.gotteethguide.com By Saundra Goodman Reviewed by Georgia Richardson, www.queenjawjaw.com Buy this Book 
If you think reading a book on dental care will make
your eyes glaze over-think again.
Got Teeth? A Survivor's Guide was informative, most educational, and very entertaining. Saundra Goodman has combined years of research with her own personal journey through periodontal disease which resulted in the loss of half of her own teeth and her only option, dentures. Think you know all you need to know as far as good oral hygiene is concerned? Again I say-think again. For instance, here's a little something I learned from reading Got Teeth? A Survivor's Guide: Fact number one: Did you know that gum disease is a leading cause of heart attacks? And did you also know that it is now the second leading risk factor for them behind only smoking? Fact number two: Baking soda is actually very abrasive and can ruin the enamel on your teeth These are just a couple of health factors among many buried within the pages of this very educational, very informative, and even humor-filled manuscript turned reference guide for me. I actually read this book twice! I want to add that I was astonished, yet fascinated at the different cultures approaches to dental care throughout history. Included are the Chinese, Romans, (I won't give away the Chinese, Babyloians, or the Egyptian's early beliefs, but it involved live mice, donkeys, and other things!), and the Phoenicians, just to name a few. Were you aware that the Chinese invented the modern bristle toothbrush in the '40's because they believed that "tooth worms" invaded their mouths? Yet another historical fact; ancient dentists paid soldiers to bring them the teeth of a dead soldier from the battlefield so that they could have a never-ending supply of teeth for research. For every adult who wants to learn the importance of good oral hygiene and how it can affect one's overall health, and importantly, if you can say yes to having a history of dental problems, unexplained bad breath, or bleeding gums and would like to know more about preventive maintenance, then pick up a copy of Got Teeth? A Survivor's Guide. Is dental care important? Got teeth?-Want to keep them?
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MEMBER COLUMNS How to Not Stress Thanksgiving By Barbara E. Friesner  Thanksgiving is my
favorite holiday. All Americans can celebrate it, we can
all get together as a family, give thanks for the many
blessings in our lives, and eat!-all without the stress
of finding the "perfect" gift or fear of political
correctness!Unfortunately, however, knowing that this might be the last Thanksgiving with an aging loved one can produce enormous pressure to make the holiday especially significant. Continue reading at this link: More from Barbara Do you ever wonder? By Robin Miller  Do you have a daughter;
granddaughter or a friend who you think might be
involved in an abusive relationship with an intimate
partner?There may be real cause to worry. According to a national survey, twenty-two percent of women 18 and over will experience domestic violence in their lifetime. One of the red flags is a partner who is possessive. Young girls are particularly vulnerable. In the beginning of a relationship, they may mistake possessiveness for caring. Initially it may make them feel loved and special. What you need to watch for if you are worried about your friend or loved one is a sign or signs that her partner is isolating her. Continue reading at this link: More from Robin Feng Shui Organizing- Use the "Natural Forces of the Universe" to Organize Your Life By Sheri McConnell 
What is Feng Shui?When translated into English, feng shui means "the way of the wind and water" or "the natural forces of the universe." People all over the world practice a form of feng shui. Europeans call it "geomancy," while Hawaiians and Native Americans practice their own form of feng shui. To organize your life using feng shui, it is helpful to learn more about the elements of our earth as well as the basic principles of feng shui. Continue reading at this link: More from Sheri Home for the Holidays By Natalie Caine  Dream your
dreams. Help others feel at ease when they walk
through your door but do not abandon yourself.
Parents are making marketing lists from recipes and
re-arranging colors in the house for the holidays.
I have a list below that might give everyone a heads up on this transition. Children will come back from college, work, travel, their homes and some won't be able to make it. Winter break for college children can last for three to four weeks. Continue reading at this link: More from Natalie Who's the REAL Turkey By Georgia Richardson, Queen Jaw Jaw 
What I can say about Thanksgiving that hasn't been
said before? Do I mention the overeating, which I'm
pretty sure is a law somewhere, or at least a
requirement at my families table, or do I talk about
family and the ties that gag-uh, I mean bind? How about I tell you how every single year my family plots behind my back via cell phones and late night conversations to have me NOT COOK. It plays out the same, identical scenario, year after year. They haven't caught on yet that I don't even WANT to cook. Hello? I show up, eat, do a few dishes, and leave. What's not to like? Continue reading at this link: More from Georgia Hot Coals By Nan S. Russell 
Involved in an expensive developmental workshop,
Chad volunteered first when the facilitator queried the
group about their objectives. It was the morning
session of a weekend event that a friend of mine was
conducting, and she'd asked me to sit-in. So, on a
Saturday morning when I'd normally be sleeping, I
found myself listening to Chad's frustrations about his
lack of success, his inflexible boss, and his difficult
coworkers.Continue reading at this link: More from Nan 12 Secrets to Great Romance for the Rest of Your Life By Judith Sherven, Ph.D. & James Sniechowski, Ph.D.  You can have great
romance - real romance - for the rest of your life. And,
it's easier than you think!All you have to do is begin practicing the first of these ten steps. When you feel comfortable, add the next one that attracts you most. Before long you'll notice a difference in your confidence, self-respect, your capacity to give and receive love and, of course, the intimacy that makes it all worthwhile. Continue reading at this link: More from Judith Resume Writing and Interviewing By Jan Cullinane  Are you older
than 45? By 2010, the Bureau of Labor Statistics
estimates that about one-third of the labor force will be
comprised of "mature" workers (defined as over 45). If
you are planning on returning to work during your
retirement years, you may have to update (or dust off)
your resume. Don't feel obligated to list every job you've ever had; concentrate on those positions that are pertinent to the employment you are seeking. If you're looking to change careers, or if you're reentering the workforce after a hiatus, concentrate on the transferable skills applicable to the new position, and downplay job titles if necessary. Continue reading at this link: More from Jan Chocolat a Paris By Carol Sorgen  Ah, Paris! Strolling
along the Seine, window shopping on Avenue
Montaigne, gazing at the Mona Lisa.. Sure, you can do
all those things (and at some point, you should!). Moi,
however? Well, on my most recent visit, I had another
goal in mind--sample as many of Paris' legendary
chocolate and pastry shops as I could (without
making myself sick, or a candidate for the South
Beach diet when I returned)!I know, it was a tough assignment, but hey, I was up to the challenge. And it was all in the name of research, wasn't it? Continue reading at this link: More from Carol How to Stay Motivated! By Janice Taylor  A few NABBW members, friends and even a family member have asked me, "What to do? How can I to stay motivated?" Ahhh--the $64 million question! People often say that motivation doesn't last. Well, neither does bathing -that's why we recommend it daily. ~ Zig Ziglar There's your answer! Zig Ziglar said it best. We have to renew our enthusiasm, motivation, Joie de Vie on a daily basis! I sip my morning coffee and think about where I'm going, how I'm getting there, and then I read something that fires me up and carries me through the day. (Once in awhile it's something I wrote! Major thrill that day.) Continue reading at this link: More from Janice
MEMBER NEWS Amy Ammons Mullis Mind Over Mullis Amy's essay "The Greatest Gig on Earth" is included in A Cup of Comfort for Writers, published in September, and her romantic story of getting love right the second time around, "Some Like It Hot," appears in Chicken Soup for the Chocolate Lover's Soul, due out this month. You can join her as she tries to adjust to life "When the carseats are empty, but the nest is still full" at Mind Over Mullis Joanna Brandt www.lulu.com/content/1180337. In "LOSS is inevitable, GRIEF is natural, HEALING is gradual" eighteen authors impart personal stories that span the journey from the pain of loss through the dark days of grief to the grace of healing. Buy it at www.lulu.com/content/1180337. Conceived and edited by Joanna Brandt, founder of Radiance Publishing, this book provides the support of a community of mourners to everyone who has experienced one of life's losses, from the end of a job to the death of a loved one. Elizabeth Cassidy, CTACC Creative Life and Career Coach www.BranchingOutLifeCoaching.com As the founder of Branching Out Life Coaching, Elizabeth supports and motivates her clients to uncover creative solutions to whatever is blocking them from going forward in their lives. By challenging and holding her clients accountable, Elizabeth's clients begin to tap into their own creativity and courage and develop plans to start their own business or change careers, paint in Paris for a year or shed those old tired layers of insecurity that are keeping them from leading an authentic life. For a Complimentary Coaching Consultation, please email Elizabeth at: BranchoutLife@optonline.net Allison Bottke www.allisonbottke.com was recently interviewed on the Christian Work At Home Moments podcast about her second novel,, One Little Secret. PLEASE CLICK HERE TO LISTEN TO THE INTERVIEW. She is the founder of www.boomerbabesrock.com. Jan Cullinane www.thenewretirement.net Jan was interviewed by Rhett Palmer for his radio show (WFLA 1370). Her topic was The New Retirement based on her book which can be found at www.amazon.com Leigh Anne Jashaway-Bryant www.accidentalcomic.com Looking for the perfect gift to honor and celebrate your girlfriends? In award-winning writer, Leigh Anne Jasheway-Bryant's new novel, Life is Funny: A Riveting Tale of Comedy, Hairdressing, and Texas Politics, friends help each other find true love, chase their dreams, recover from bad relationships, and run for governor! Filled with laughter and reminders of why girlfriends are so important in our lives, Life is Funny is available at www.accidentalcomic.com and www.amazon.com Lorraine Keller Lorraine@lifequalitytechnologies.com Coming soon: relief for hot flashes. Life Quality Technologies, LLC is developing a discreet, wearable product to cool you instantly when a hot flash begins. Help us understand your needs by taking our brief survey. Meredith Laskow has finally finished her new writing website www.meredithlaskow.com --- except for the last page, which is where YOU come in. I need more reciprocal links! If your website is writing-related, you'll be added to my Literary Links page. For non-writing links, you'll appear on the page Friends. Email , meredith@meredithlaskow.com. Of course, I'm still making my wonderful jewelry www.meredithbead.com. And just for NABBW members, I'm offering free regular worldwide shipping on all jewelry orders. Lorena McCourtney www.lorenamccourtney.com Lorena has two novels releasing in October. Your Chariot Awaits is Book #1 in her new Andi McConnell Mysteries series from Thomas Nelson. The Blue Moon , a trade-paperback size release of a book that originally came out in hardcover for the Guideposts book club. Both are available in many bookstores, or on the internet at Amazon, Barnes & Noble, etc. Marcia Merrill www.ecareercorner.com Do you feel stuck, unfulfilled, overwhelmed? It's tough to know when and how to make a career change. Visit Marcia, the Transistion Chick at her site and let her help you on your path to making successful changes at midlife Cyndi Norris RN nursenorris@comcast.net Komen Race for the Cure has been dear to her heart since losing her parents to cancer and watching her sister go through breast cancer. Cyndi has redirected her nursing career and now educates people about toxins in their homes and what they can do to decrease their own risks of cancer. She shops a Wellness company of toxin free products and has experienced the benefits of doing so. For more information on this, please email her at nursenorris@comcast.net Carol D. O'Dell www.caroldodell.com Carol, author of Mothering Mother was interviewed by CNN. Enjoy this link to her interview. Dr. Nancy D. O' Reilly www.womenspeak.com On Tuesdays, through January 22, 2008, at 2 PM EST/1PM Central/11 AM Pacific, Timeless WomenSpeak will feature expert guests and news for women about careers, health, finances, relationships, and growing older. A member of the American Psychological Association, she has more than 25 years of counseling experience. Her host page features live and archived shows. For the perfect gift, don't miss Dr. Nancy's Big Holiday Sale. Connie Pombo, www.conniepombo.com, Dana Hall, www.passionateforlife.com Tell Your Story Have you found your passion in life through pain, loss, or tragedy? Here is your opportunity to tell your story and inspire others. NABBW members, Connie Pombo, author, writer, speaker and Dana Hall, founder, editor of Passionate for Life online magazine, invite you to submit your story for their book, "Taking Flight: Living Life Passionately". Writers Guidelines. We look forward to hearing from you and reading your stories! Tell us NABBW sent you. Patricia M Terrell www.pmterrell.com Following the release of her latest book, Songbirds are Free, and after completion of her 3-state book tour, Ms Terrell attended the annual BOOK EM festival in Waynesboro, VA, of which she is the co-founder. For more information, please visit www.pmterrell.com
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Taming Your StressDeborah Smith Pegues Buy this Book  For NABBW members, you can get the latest FREE issue of BeE Magazine using the promo link found at the Members Only section at the NABBW. Want to send flowers to a friend, or popcorn to a family or business? NABBW is now offering member discounts at www.1800flowers.com and www.thepopcornfactory.com 
TAKE TIME TO VISIT OUR SISTER SITE www.boomerwomenspeak.com is the # 1 site on search engines for "baby boomer women." Join us in our forums where you can share from the heart, give and receive advice, and make new friends. Please email dots@nabbw.com if you no longer want to receive this publication. Click Below to View other Newsletters 10/01/2007 October Boomer Women's World
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Though she grew up with a
vague
sense of her ancestry, it wasn't until she began the
research for her latest release, Songbirds are
Free, that she fully realized what it meant to be a
pioneer, to fight off Indian attacks, to move to a
wilderness and stake a claim, and to fight for
freedom.
PASS IT ON: We all know her. She's at
midlife. She wants to take care of herself but can't
always squeeze it in because she's so busy caring for
any of
the following: her husband, mother, father, children,
grandchildren, in-laws, neighbors, friends,
colleagues, etc. Won't you please help her out by
sharing this newsletter and the NABBW with her?