Lynn,

I feel strongly that I'd like to support you. I am trying to put myself in your position. I believe, right or wrong, that I would be totally upfront with your boss about what you are willing to do and what you are trying to achieve. That is, make it clear if you are happy with doing well financially at your current level or would like a promotion. Then tell your boss you are willing to support him if he is willing to support you. It is amazing how well these honest agreements work out. Maybe someone else will have a different opinion. I am always open to difference.

Judy