Lani
how generous and heartwarming thatyou share the infomation about care facilities.
Hardwired...what an enderaaing term for long loved partners.
The hours you spent the day prior to your dad's passing will let you have solace,
I too cared for my Grandfather whilst he was a resident in a nice care facility.Between us (the staff) made him happy and despite his reluctance to be in a residential situation.
My friend helped..she brought him here early each Thursday..he had a home day where he was the centre of attention.Then Friday I took his shopping in.Weekends he joined us where we went.
I firmly believe he deserved all the input and although sad he no longer had his home his wife and neighbours things worked out.
I could do no other than be his rock.
He left a gap no other will fill.
Mountain ash