Danita my dear friend and Bookie, I truly believe that most men don't have a clue as to the meaning of the word 'love.' I have studied this subject extensively via my profession and found out from the men themselves in a round about way that we women, all of us are mere substitutes for their mothers...we cook, clean, shop, hostess, have the kids, keep the houses going and wipe their noses. Oh sure every now and then they get hard and need us to fall on until they get relief. If we're lucky we even feel some passion from them until after they get their relief...then somehow the feelings go right back to us being the mommy again...This is the way it is and so if you're looking for romance marry another woman...joke folks!!! but strangely accurate.