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#96129 - 11/27/06 05:59 PM
Re: Scarlett woman...
[Re: Dianne]
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Those type of men do their best to get their women to believe they are IT. My x was like that. He paid attention to any woman but me and said I had a problem if I complained. After we divorced, I was the woman he wanted and the "other woman" became the old shoe.
However, I never did blame the women he slobbered over, most were decent and not flirtatious.
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#96133 - 11/28/06 10:28 AM
Re: Scarlett woman...
[Re: chatty lady]
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Registered: 06/05/06
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Loc: American living in Europe
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Oh goody, a debate! As I said, this is the European way. There is flirting…and there is slimy flirting. I agree, Chatty. I don't like slimy blubbering flirting, but a suave, debonair flirt can lift the ego. Gee, am I really alone on this here?
During the carnival season, everyone dances with everyone in Germany and not just their spouses. At restaurants, if you go out with a group of friends, couples don't usually sit next to each other, (the attitude is, we see each other all the time anyway)… Men meet friends for sports and going to bars. Company parties are held without the spouses. Women go to theatres, join clubs and do sports together.
It all amounts to trust. In our 31 years of marriage, my husband and I have never been unfaithful. When he smiles at another woman, I smile at her too. I'm proud that my Hubby belongs to me. I don't have to lock him in or forbid him to joke and flirt with another women. I know he's loyal and always will be.
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#96135 - 11/28/06 02:13 PM
Re: Scarlett woman...
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My x was even flirting with my 2 sisters. They told me he creeped them out. I had to tell him to keep his hands off my sisters.
Hannalore, your idea of flirting to me isn't flirting. It's only being friendly and kind and having a good time. Flirting is when a man falls all over himself to ask a woman to dance, when he hasn't asked his wife. It's when he tells that woman she's the best looking woman in the place - and announces the fact to the entire table of friends.
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#96139 - 11/28/06 08:08 PM
Re: Scarlett woman...
[Re: chatty lady]
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Registered: 05/24/04
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Loc: Arizona
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I think we all know the difference between a little flirting and the come on. This man was giving me the come on to let me know he was available. If he'd just said, nice car, I would have been fine with that.
To me, flirting with me when I'm wearing my wedding ring is an insult to my husband. Like I would stray to be with some creep who thought I wanted him because that's the only way he could feel good about himself.
My ex was always looking at other women. Nothing I said could make him stop. I knew the day would come when he carried it further and he did.
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