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#19002 - 11/21/05 06:57 PM Re: Quit Smoking? Tell us how you did it.
TVC15 Offline
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Registered: 09/03/04
Posts: 2538
Loc: North Carolina
Well so far, I'm still stinky!
Not giving up though!

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#19003 - 11/21/05 07:30 PM Re: Quit Smoking? Tell us how you did it.
chickadee Offline
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Registered: 09/26/04
Posts: 3910
Loc: Alabama
I had 2 good days with 4 a day. 3rd day (today)is hardest for me. TVC you smell good to me. [Embarrassed] Norma you are doing pretty good I see. I may not have quit yet...but I am on my way.
Ladybug, you are such a warm hearted human being. I truly appreciate what you have done for the three of us who are trying to kick an addiction. We really want to...we just don't know how yet.
I changed to a brand that I don't like. From 120's(long)to 100's. I don't chew gum because It makes me hungry and I DON'T want to gain weight. I quit smoking in my car. When I crave, I use a straw to chew on. Today I am going to try and go the whole day without one. Wish me luck.

Everyone...we really do need your support. Thank you for helping us.

chick

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#19004 - 11/22/05 08:37 AM Re: Quit Smoking? Tell us how you did it.
ladybug Offline
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Registered: 09/22/05
Posts: 1402
Chickadee, I'm so happy to hear how hard you are trying. I really do think you'll do it this time.

Thanks for all your kind comments to me. You'll never know just how much they are appreciated.

For a very long time (too long) I was on a self-pity trip. I've finally gotten off and getting on with my life. I'd almost forgotten about my motto: to do at least one good thing for a person at least once a day. So I'll be off now, Marge needs a new shower curtain hung and her back is just in too much pain to do it herself.

Have a happy day and don't forget to post in the Smoking Section Only!

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#19005 - 11/22/05 08:43 AM Re: Quit Smoking? Tell us how you did it.
smilinize Offline
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Registered: 11/08/03
Posts: 3512
Loc: outer space
Chickadee, If you can make it through one day without a cigarette, you can make it a lifetime without smoking. One day at a time.

This could be the beginning of a whole new life of freedom for you. We're all behind you. 100%

smile

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#19006 - 11/21/05 09:05 PM Re: Quit Smoking? Tell us how you did it.
Dianne Offline
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Registered: 05/24/04
Posts: 6123
Loc: Arizona
My therapist had me try this and it really worked! I'm not kidding. He had me take a cigarette and lighter and pretend to light it and inhale deeply. Honestly, it felt the exact way it would if it had been lit. I had an immediate sense of relief, just like I did when lighting up.

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#19007 - 11/21/05 10:16 PM Re: Quit Smoking? Tell us how you did it.
ladybug Offline
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Registered: 09/22/05
Posts: 1402
Dianne, all the more proof of the psychological effects nicotine has on a person don't you think?

Sounds like a very smart therapist.

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#19008 - 12/05/05 08:38 AM Re: Quit Smoking? Tell us how you did it.
chickadee Offline
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Registered: 09/26/04
Posts: 3910
Loc: Alabama
quote:
Originally posted by chickadee:
Norma, I keep hearing stories from people who say they quit and didn't crave another one after...Why can't we do that? Ladybug, I quit every day for two weeks now. I am just going to keep quitting until I get it right.
Good luck to us 'quitters'.
chick

Ladybug, Gosh, I know you started the topic, Norma was a slip of the mind(?) Forgive me?. [Embarrassed] . I had JJ's words close to me about what her Daddy said and it made such sense. When I posted about cravings, Dianne posted this: it was ((( My Final turning point ))) Norma and TVC, this is especially for you two. BTW thanks TVC for your kind comments.

quote:
Originally posted by Dianne:

I posted the book that helped me quit and in it the author says the reason we continue to have cravings is *** because we haven't really made up our minds to quit.*** When the monster was begging to be fed every 15 minutes, I would tell myself that smoking wasn't an option anymore and I'd go on to something else, like work that had been waiting while I was smoking.

I seriously encourage you to get that book and read it.


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#19009 - 12/05/05 08:52 AM Re: Quit Smoking? Tell us how you did it.
TVC15 Offline
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Registered: 09/03/04
Posts: 2538
Loc: North Carolina
Dianne,
I just saw your post about pretending to light up. I'm going to try this in the morning. that is when i have the worst time of it. Always smoke with my morning coffee and once I've started, that's it for the day.
You're welcome Chick! And it's true!!!!

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#19010 - 12/05/05 04:16 AM Re: Quit Smoking? Tell us how you did it.
Bookie Offline
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Registered: 09/18/05
Posts: 99
Loc: Arizona
Here are a few things that worked for me....
I bought a bunch of toothbrushes. Put them in my car, my desk, nightstand, purse...everywhere I could think of. When I wanted to light up I brushed my teeth instead. Yah I got a few stares driving down the road brushing my teeth but...oh well:D Sure beat the disapproving glances.

Splurged on a huge bottle of one of my favorite perfumes Ysatis. Instead of people furrowing their brows because I smelled of cigarette smoke they told me how good I smelled. (Positive reinforcement) [Big Grin]

Water - Drink it often! Ice cubes or crushed ice

"Smoke-Away"...You can buy it almost anywhere. It worked for my sister who was a chain smoker for 50 years.

Years ago I had a friend who was a hypnotist. I told him I wanted to try hypnotherapy to quit smoking. He said that first we had to determine why I smoke. I told him. "I know why I smoke! I smoke so I don't eat!" My mother was 5'4 and weighed 400 lbs. My sister was 5'5 and weighed 300 lbs. At the time, I was 5'7 and weighed 130 lbs.

Well I had a couple of sessions with him and soon he announced...You're right! You are afraid of becoming obese. Cigarettes are your food..
Well two sessions later I was a non smoker. Until....multiple deaths in the family including my mother, divorce, job changes you name it. My brother is an alchoholic so I never turned to alcohol to soothe my nerves but went back to smoking until I was diagnosed with skin cancer. And now...50 extra pounds go with me wherever I go! Yes I know that alot of the extra weight is due to age and menopause so... now I'm just a fluffy, good smelling ol' bat [Big Grin]

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#19011 - 12/05/05 04:42 AM Re: Quit Smoking? Tell us how you did it.
ladybug Offline
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Registered: 09/22/05
Posts: 1402
Chickadee, it's quite alright that you forgot who started this topic. As I said, it doesn't really matter because we are all helping each other.

Just look at all the good ideas in here on how people are "taming this beast."

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