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#1504 - 01/29/05 05:41 AM
Faith gone?
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Queen of Shoes
Registered: 05/24/04
Posts: 6123
Loc: Arizona
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Before I post this, please, please, please don't preach to me, okay?
I used to faithfully go to church...morning, night, wednesday night and sometimes in between. I used to sing on Trinity Broadcasting Network. I was in charge of special music for my church. I was a good Christian woman. And then...
My husband started chasing other women, etc. and my children and I went through so much and it was really scary for us. I finally had to divorce him as he was flaunting some woman around our home town. My church would no longer let me sing because of his actions. Whatever. Said I lost my "umbrella of protection" that my husband afforded me.
Then, I move and start going to a class at a huge church (so I could get lost in the crowd) and it was for divorced people. Loved it but our great leader, one of the assoc. pastor's of this church, was caught buying drugs on the street. This was after he condemned us up and down for months on end saying we had sin in our camp. Guess we found out where the sin was! I also got tired of men trying to pick me up at our meetings. It's church!!!!!
Long story even longer, I got tired of the fakery. Now, I know we aren't supposed to look at man but come on, what makes up a church but the people?
I still have faith in God but I can't force myself to go to certain churches. Most churches. My sister is now the same way. Those who preached at us turned out to be liars.
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#1505 - 01/29/05 06:09 AM
Re: Faith gone?
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Registered: 10/08/04
Posts: 1274
Loc: MD
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Dianne, I don't go to church every Sunday . If you don't go to Church that is Ok! I say you can show kindness and help people and show your faith that way. I have had friends say were very religous and they were not there when I needed them. Etc. You have to do what is best for you.
What is they say it is not good to judge or be judged . Something like that .
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#1506 - 01/29/05 06:58 AM
Re: Faith gone?
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Registered: 01/17/05
Posts: 152
Loc: Kansas City Kansas
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Didn't the biblesay "we are the church" A "church is simply a building where we all gather. Correct me if I'm wrong. But we can minister and do Gods will regardless of whether we attend church every sunday It's whats in our hearts that count.
Keep the faith and remember you are God's child and He loves you
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#1508 - 01/29/05 07:58 PM
Re: Faith gone?
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Founder
Registered: 07/09/08
Posts: 23647
Loc: Maryland
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Dianne, I have to admit your post pains me. I worked in a church as the Director of Member Care for a few years. One of my responsibilites was church membership/recruitment if you want to call it that. I was responsible for the visitors and new members.
I've heard many stories similar to yours. The church has turned so many people away, especially our generation growing up and getting married in the 60's and 70's.
I know friends who couldn't get married in the Catholic Church because they admitted to premarital sex, while others chose to lie to the priest so they could still get married in the church. How ridiculous is that?
I believe Jesus hates the sin, but embraces the sinner.
The fact that your church would no longer let you sing because of his actions makes my blood boil.
All sins are sins before God. Those very people who asked you to leave are sinners too. We all are. How can you be set apart?
I believe God never intended that religion be what it is today. He sent Jesus to free us from the regiment of following rules and regulations. He wanted His disciples to guide and serve, not dictate and legislate. When we do this we become just like the Pharisees.
I find it hard to believe that Jesus ever wanted religion to damage people. Religion comes from the heart and a deep relationship with God. It should bring peace, joy, love, and kindness to people, not fear, guilt, or separation.
God's prime concern is people, not religious laws and division.
My belief is that church is a hospital for sinners, NOT a museum for saints. Churches that come across as museums are shooting themsleves in the foot.
The churches that are growing embrace all of God's people (especially those with flaws) and have classes and retreats to help all become more like Christ. Imagine that! Remember who Christ picked as His disciples?
I believe we need to be in a church family. We need to be surrounded by a community of believers even if it's only in the pew on Sunday mornings. I'm not saying jump in with both feet, but do jump in and be strengtheened by the services and let the Holy Spirit take over from there.
If you take a log and remove it from the fire, it will smolder and burn out. The same can be true of Christians when removed from the church. We need one another!
If you don't like the idea of church, look for a prayer group or Bible study. Just find a way to commune with other Christians. It's good for us.
One of my favorite groups isn't associated with my church. It's a non-denominational gathering that meets on Tuesdays for lunch and faith discussions. The beauty of it is we don't dicuss what's going on in our churches. We talk about our faith only. It was a welcome relief to have church politics left at the door.
Sorry for rambling!
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#1512 - 01/29/05 09:37 PM
Re: Faith gone?
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Registered: 10/08/04
Posts: 1274
Loc: MD
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Dotise ,
I agree with you. How lovely . Beautiful words Dotise.
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#1513 - 01/30/05 01:35 AM
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Registered: 08/27/03
Posts: 791
Loc: Nipigon, Ontario Canada
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This month's Christianity Today has an excellent article by Tim Stafford on this issue "The Church why bother?" I recommend reading it.
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