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#184786 - 06/20/09 11:22 PM
Father's Day dilemma
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A friend shared this personal experience and I wanted to pass it on...
She and her DH work for the same company. They offered a steak lunch to all the fathers. When her DH walked up to the counter, he was given a steak. He, being so honest, said that he was not able to be a Dad. The lady took it away and said, "oh, you get the barbecue"!
Now tell me that that is not rude! I'd would have said "Well, you have a Dad's heart. Here's one for you anyway".
One time I'd gone to church and they handed ALL the women a gift.....mother or not!
One of the ten commandments says "Honor they father and thy mother". It does not way WHEN! Why does a pagan holiday have to hurt so many? His wife felt SO badly that she told him she'd get him the biggest steak and make it JUST for him!
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#184788 - 06/21/09 12:48 AM
Re: Father's Day dilemma
[Re: Di]
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I give up trying to figure people out...
I feel badly for the man...his wife sounds like a sweetheart and I'm glad she said what she did.
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Dee "They will be able to say that she stood in the storm and when the wind did not blow her away....and surely it has not.....she adjusted her sails" - Elizabeth Edwards
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#184789 - 06/21/09 02:07 AM
Re: Father's Day dilemma
[Re: Dee]
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HA, you're right, Dee. Sometimes we just have to bear it.....without the grinning!
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#184808 - 06/21/09 07:28 AM
Re: Father's Day dilemma
[Re: Di]
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That is really horrible!! People just don't think sometimes.
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#184871 - 06/22/09 02:56 PM
Re: Father's Day dilemma
[Re: karenelaine1977]
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Maybe it would be better if the company didn't single out people for special dinners in the first place? I can see taking the Sales division out to lunch for doing a good job, but parenting status has nothing to do with being a good employee. That's like rewarding people for being tall, or good looking, or something. I'm sure people meant well, but why have a lunch like this in the first place? I would call it poor, or thoughtless, management.
I'll admit I have never thought of Father's Day as pagan. I tend to assume something pagan is associated with pagan beliefs rather than not specifically Christian. I'd say it's a Hallmark/secular holiday.
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#184912 - 06/22/09 09:25 PM
Re: Father's Day dilemma
[Re: Anno]
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Oh sorry, I guess I mean secular, not pagan.
Yes, he is married to the right woman. They've struggled for many years with health issues etc. So, that is the least they needed.
Thanks for the support, ya'll.
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#184913 - 06/22/09 09:28 PM
Re: Father's Day dilemma
[Re: Ellemm]
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Maybe it would be better if the company didn't single out people for special dinners in the first place? I can see taking the Sales division out to lunch for doing a good job, but parenting status has nothing to do with being a good employee. That's like rewarding people for being tall, or good looking, or something. I'm sure people meant well, but why have a lunch like this in the first place? I would call it poor, or thoughtless, management.
I'm in total agreement, Ellen. It's as if he didn't do his homework or something! Gosh, sometimes we are treated like we didn't DO something right. When in fact, childlessness is a physiological/health issue...not a behavior!
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#184972 - 06/23/09 02:41 PM
Re: Father's Day dilemma
[Re: Di]
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Well, I'd be equally against taking all the single or nonparents out as well; just has nothing whatsoever to do with their work. I'm glad I've never heard of a company doing this before.
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