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#388 - 07/27/04 01:06 AM
Changing churches?
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Registered: 11/08/03
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My husband and I are somewhat disillusioned with our church. It was good at first, but seems to be changing. I have no idea where we will go. I just feel that we need to change.
It is a large contemporary church. Here are the reasons we are contemplating the change:
1. I went there for several years as a single person and we have been going there as a couple for more than a year and we know not one soul. That's probably our fault, but they don't allow meetings in the church and you are supposed to make friends at meetings in member homes. I hate church single groups and never wennt. Together we tried a couple of groups, but they disbanded before we made friends and we have just been reluctant since.
2. The preacher doesn't seem to like the congregation. Recently he said the members shouldn't talk to him when he's out with his family and those who disagree with him should email him at craig@doesn'tgiveaflip.com.
3. The sermon is videocast. The preacher is rarely ever there in person anymore. That is okay, but I really miss a human presence.
4. They play loud contemporary music that often does not include the word God or Christ. That may be a small thing, but it is often written by the musicians who I think may want to remain open to a cross over hit which they can do only if they do not mention God's name.
5. Today some of the staff called and wanted me to write devotionals from tapes by the pastor. When I asked how much initiative I would be able to use, they were offended and the guy who called was nice, but made it clear that there would no creativity involved at all. I felt that they needed a typist, not a writer and I said so. Not a good thing to do.
6. There is no one to call if you have trouble or a death or illness. You just get voice mail or something. And certainly no one ever calls you.
I feel herded and not shepherded. Maybe I was hypersensitive. Maybe I was grumpy. Maybe I am not heeding the call of God.
Any ideas? smile <small>[ July 26, 2004, 06:12 PM: Message edited by: smilinize ]</small>
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#392 - 07/27/04 07:02 AM
Re: Changing churches?
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Registered: 02/19/03
Posts: 765
Loc: Oregon
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Smile, I agree with Chatty and Jawjaw, Run as fast as you can to a Church where you feel welcome, loved and included. Maggie
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#393 - 07/27/04 04:54 PM
Re: Changing churches?
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Registered: 06/03/04
Posts: 2830
Loc: Massachusetts, USA
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Smile... Hon, remember John 10:11-16. Jesus said there are shepherds and there are hired men. The hired men do not care for the sheep. They just care for themselves. Sadly, we see them all the time <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> .
Pray for the leader and the congregation. Pray for wisdom and direction as you search for a new congregation to worship with. I pray that God directs you to the right place.
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