Chatty lady - can you do that in a no-fault divorce state? Besides, the girlfriend is in California, not even in the same state as we are...how does that work?

As far as the violent streak is concerned, he does not have a history of violence per se but one of the reasons I asked for a separation was that he started losing his temper and intimidating me with his size...it really did scare me and it was after a couple of incidents like those that I changed the locks to the house.

Who knows what can happen to someone whose lies are suddenly coming out in the open and is feeling threatened? I really don't want to find out.

In the meantime, my youngest has decided to tell his father that he wants to stay with me and not make the switch over for the week cuase he is so freaked out...

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