Foundhervoice, don't worry because you're correct these jerks never hurt themselves they just hurt others....I still think you should pursue suing the b-witch involved, especially now, for alienation of affection (maybe her husband woulg halfs)...It would so serve her right and you would really have the last laugh....My friend is $50,000. richer by doing that and got an even bigger plus, her ex's girlfriend got so p--sed off she dumped him...