Thank you all for the advice...

Hey starting over, girl you have been through it..
You also scare me though. See there were times when he was on the internet that I dressed up in a little nighty or a nice panty and bra set and it didn't do a thing for him. I know I am not the best looking thing, but I know I am that bad because I do get hit on! It was hard for me to wear those things, your body is not your body anymore after children. See there for a while we weren't having sex. Now we are, but I wonder why. I also asked him recently why he would go on askmen.com and talk to complete strangers about clothing and stuff like that and he doesn't even talk to me.I also asked him if he realized that most of the men on that site are most likely gay. He got really defensive exspecially when i questioned his screen name...it was feminine... He told me that was a fashion thing, he works retail, he also said that I was being a real... about it and I shouldn't be snooping. They sent the confirmation to my email address, so ofcourse I would get it. I told him any woman would be upset...